Another citation from the same source as my previous post in this thread…
"…researchers are struck by the inaccuracy of memory in adults, even during the years when we think we remember best. For all people of all ages, memory is highly selelctive, sometimes false, and often self-serving; this may be more so the younger a person is (Loftus, 1997).
Moreover, just like the baby whose memory is aided by reminders, adults find their memories strengthened by reminders. The difference is that for children and adults, language provides significant assistance that babies do not receive (Schneider & Bjorklund, 1998). Reminders typically occur when we write or tell our memories to someone else; this gives our audience considerable power over what those memories will be. As one psychologist explains:
Our recollections are often elicited by and formed with other people. When this is the case, the past is created through narrative rather than being translated into narrative… Think back to some charged event in your own life-perhaps the first fight you had with your spouse. Now imagine telling that story to your mate, may years later at the celebration of your twenny-fifth wedding anniversary, telling it to your divorce lawyer, telling it to your children now that they are grown up, writing it in a humorous memoir of you now famous life, or telling it to your therapist. In each case the person you are telling it to, and the reasons you are telling it, will have a formative effect on the memory itself. (Engel, 1999).
At any age, the social aspects of memory are remarkable. Someone else’s memories and interpretations of an event can merge with our own; a single dramatic moment can be forgotten if others react neutrally but can be seared in our minds if others echo or exaggerate our own reaction. Just as with a baby, direct involvement, repetition, personal action, and emotional excitement make a memeory last longer…"
Deep stuff, that. I gather from the above that memory is greatly enhanced by brain maturation, language development, repetition, emotional context and one’s actual physical involvement during the episode that created the memory. The whole aspect of narrative also appears to have a significant effect on memory (think ‘recovered memories’).