We’re not gay but I never miss a chance for a “Hi Opal”
The OP actually presents me with two questions:
Who cooks more - for us its about equal depending on the season. I hate out electric stove but have an excessive grill/smoker so during the summer I do most of the cooking. This month she is doing a vast majority but even then some is adding gravy and noodles to some smoked meat already in the freezer. Purely in terms of hours and minutes, she edges me out a little but not by a horrible amount.
Who is better at cooking - she wins. I’m more farm-style basic ingredients and she can do the fancy stuff with a recipe that looks like the plans for the Normandy Invasion. And do it very very well.