[QUOTE=Malacandra]
True up to a point, but I think society allows some wiggle room either side of the median, so it is not necessary to aim continually below the 50th percentile, and hence lower the median, all the time
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But the only way to be sure you’re safe is to aim for below the line. The logocal conclusion of this is, of course, that there is no behavior that will change the mind of a man who belives that he has the right to do that to a woman. There is only a relative likelihood of being victimized.