My soon to be x-husband changed my password on my AOL email account and subscribed to a lot of porn sites making it look like I did this but he did it from his own computer. Can I trace these back to him?
Why? Just unsubscribe and don’t descend to his level of petty, spiteful bullshit.
One of you has to be the adult in this divorse.
How is tracing it back petty or spiteful?
What other motivation would our erstwhile new friend have? She seems intent on proving he did this - I wonder to whom and why.
No, you can’t. You’d need law enforcement help to get the sites involved to release the relevant data. And if you could do this, why would you want to? The legal system has more important things to do than investigate petty pranks by soon to be ex-husbands.
One way to take the higher road is to demonstrate that the other party is taking a lower road. All this helps in the effort to portray oneself as the injured party in need of extra financial recompense.
even if you could trace it back to his computer - all he has to do is say you borrowed it.
fix your password and unsubscribe.
Take the high road. Key his car, order pizzas delivered to his house, and subscribe him to The Wall Street Journal like an adult.
In divorce trials where child custody is an issue, a parent’s moral fitness is a factor the judge considers in determining custody matters. Perhaps the OP is asking for way to obtain the info for this reason.
Clearly, this is intended as a joke. Because no one here would advocate performing illegal acts in violation of the board’s TOS and run rules.
Not to mention that vengeance is stupid.