I remember as a child in the US that every year, I was supposed to bring in (or have a parent bring in) a card listing official info about my parents and emergency contact info, as well as a signature that the school was allowed to take me to the emergency room in case of an emergency and that they had permission to give me medical services if deemed necessary.
Now, I can see the law supporting the requirement that parents must supply contact info, but what would happen if I became a parent and adamantly refused to grant the local public school system to treat my child? I suspect that it might constitute per se neglect, possibly leading to a visit from Child Protective Services about why I don’t care about my kids health, but then I don’t think the law is terribly keen on forcing people to grant consent, the law just forces people to do something. It’s like the fact that a court would never (or so I am led to believe) order someone to “consent” to a search, as that could be seen as infringing on someone’s conscience, the court would just order the search.
Note: I am unmarried with no kids and am unlikely to become a parent soon, and I am not looking for legal advice.
My WAG is that because the school is by law acting in loco parentis of every student they can legally give consent for emergency medical treatment (or administer first aid) regardless of the parents’ wishs; the cards are just CYA and to verify contact info. Parents implicitly give consent merely by sending their kid to the school.
When I was a teacher, I once had to take a kid to the hospital. We were unable to reach the parent, so we made the decision because of in loco parentis.
BTW, I used to think that meant, “Your parents are crazy.”
You’d be fine as long as you were administering true first aid. States have “good samaritan laws” which protect people and organizations acting in the best interests and within first aid.
Giving a kid an aspirin, is most likely not going to be “first aid.” So what if they kid has a headache, it may hurt but it’s not gonna kill him. Stopping him from bleeding is another matter.
In any event you could always call an ambulance, and the city and hospital will assume it from there.
When I was the night manager of a hotel, I would have guests complain and look ill and then refuse to let me call an ambulence. While they were in my lobby, I called the ambulance anyway, then when the EMTs arrived I let the guest fight it out with the EMT. Almost always the guest went with the EMT but a few times the guest refused and the EMT made them sign an AMA (against medical advice) waiver.
But that way I figured, hey I’m off the hook and the company is off the hook if the guest refuses to go with the ambulance.