As described here (from the “romantic comedy” thread);
I have never personally had a relationship like this, so I was wondering if any of you out
there had. Includes an instant feeling of loathing upon first contact which inevitably leads
to an incredibly passionate relationship…
Yep. Been there. In fact, I mentioned him in the “did you ever have a crush that led to more” thread some months ago. We’re still friends. Our relationship was amazing. Nothing like it before or since. But I HATED him when we first met, and in fact told our mutual friend how much I hated him. But now, I can look back at all of it, smile, and hope that he smiles about it too.
Oh yeah. I used to work with a woman that I absolutely detested.
Let’s see… she was casually rascist. She was totally negative about everyone we worked with, and constantly cut me down and back-stabbed me over work-stuff. She thought it was cool to hang out with Hell’s Angels “affiliates.” She was a bitch bitch bitch, and proud of it. Really, she was a horrible person, and we were both full of contempt for each other.
The sex was spectacular, and there was never any angsty “relationship” stuff.
Have I ever! I went out with someone I really hated for 2 years. He was mean, ugly, stupid and terrible in bed. Yet somehow at the same time he was adorable and sexy and easy to talk to. I think we fought every single day. Nobody on earth could make me angrier and I still miss him.
Until I met My Guy, I thought ***all ***relationships were love/hate.