There are a lot of women out there like that. I have more than one friend who insists that their man tells them that they don’t need to look at that stuff because they are all they need. Uh, ok. :rolleyes:
You don’t know that. I’m in my very late 50’s and men hit on me all the time. I’m very fit and attractive.
Christie Brinkley is a senior citizen.
https://www.si.com/swimsuit/model/christie-brinkley/2017/photos#2
https://www.si.com/swimsuit/model/christie-brinkley/2017/photos#3
That is a 63 year old woman in a bikini. If you take good care of yourself, you will have a lot of men wanting your attention.
Blindsided2, I recently listened to a podcast which included tapes from a therapy session about a couple going through exactly what you are experiencing. Perhaps it would be helpful to you as you try to put your husband’s behavior into perspective. It is the Act 2 entitled Two Can be as Sad as One at this link: Fermi’s Paradox - This American Life