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Isn’t hell merely eternal separation from God? Isn’t that what the non-Christian wants: to not have anything to do with God? Isn’t it fair then for God to give people what they asked for? shrugs shoulders and raises eyebrows I can’t find any bad logic there.
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Ezekiel 33:11 says, “As I live, saith the Lord God, I have no pleasure in the death of the wicked; but that the wicked turn from his way and live…”
Contrary to some beliefs here, neither God nor a sane Biblical believer takes pleasure in the thought of a person going to any place like hell. Justice supposedly is upheld which is the overall goal, but it is by no means a happy time for anyone. In fact, why do you think those crazy Bible-thumpers keep trying to convert you? Because they don’t want you to go to Hell, a place they think exists!
However stupid they sound, or wrong they may be, or superioristic they seem, they care, bottom line. However closed minded they appear, they believe in their belief strongly and for them to give that up over a couple of discussions on a message board could mean that they were never true believers in the first place… so why would you want to blame them for hanging on by their fingernails to their faith and trying to frantically push it on you? Why?
If they cause you harm in any way, then resentment of that particular Christian(s) is warranted. But, if one follows the Bible to a “T”, I wouldn’t think that they would be going around causing harm to very many people on a regular basis. The Bible teaches love, believe it or not. While God’s wrath is well documented, Christians are certainly not called upon to cause harm or carry out judgement, only show love.
(There are a few places in the OT Bible where God commands believers to kill, carry out God’s judgement. But the undoing of the First Covenant that the NT teaches makes it clear that a Christian who tries to carry out God’s judgement will be judged harshly. It’s a fact of being a NT Christian.)
Remember, one can regretfully believe in something. It’s called accepting a terrible truth (Hell). Nobody’s happy about it or even wants to talk or think about it, but everybody believes it’s real and they respect it’s realism and what it stands for. Christians are out to prevent this accepted terrible truth from happening to others. Nothing more or less. If there is some prideful or unloving agenda poking out from their preaching, then I would seriously doubt that they are a Biblical believer, but rather an impostor and I would label them accordingly, to preserve fairness to the true Biblical follwers, the ones who care.