Wow, you mean people actually throw stained underwear away? I thought that was just a TV commecial gimmick thing.
A little hydrogen peroxide on panties, pants, shirts, bedsheets, whatever. Works wonders. Never thrown away anything because of stains, since.
After dealing with the rigors of childbirth and the messy aftermath, I’ve decided to invest in some goddess rags a friend of mine makes and sells. I saw an Instead on clearance at the market, but didn’t get it, not knowing when I’d be back in the ‘cycle’ again (which of course then happened a couple of weeks later).
I don’t know when I first got my period … I really don’t remember, but I was anxious for it. I also wore a bra a lot earlier than necessary just because I could ;).
Used pads for a long time. Eventually moved to tampons, then I just used whatever was cheap.
Unlike most of the posters here, I was pretty heavy, but I only cycled a few times a year, mostly in the fall. By the time I was seventeen, I was regularly missing days of school because I would black out from the pain and/or be severely exhausted and sleep for days. Finally went to the doctor after 21 days straight of bleeding.
The diagnoisis? Fibroids (I saw the ultrasound and the junk in my ute). The “cure”? The pill. Funny because he had to call my mom and tell her he was prescribing them (though if I’d listened to him and paid attention, I could have “asked” for them instead of being “prescribed” them and he wouldn’t have had to call her. But I wasn’t worried about her being upset - I knew my sister had been on them, too).
I’d get the clot things, but eventually that stopped (because of the pill? who knows). I haven’t had that in years (excluding post-partum expulsions).
I was on and off the pill for years, my cycle was lighter for a while, but my moods were worse … eventually I swore it off and we figured if our other precautions didn’t work, oh well. (Then I found out I had PCOS, explaining the odd cycles, etc, and why it was taking so long to get pregnant. Oh, and somewhere along the way I found out I was mis-diagnosed with fibroids - my ute was clear. I suppose I just had a lot of junk backed up when I was first diagnosed).
So, what did I use before I decided to switch? Whatever was handy. I liked Always with wings, I liked most tampons. I was really tired once and put one in w/o removing the other (found it a couple of days later) and managed to not die.
Eventually, I got tired of the tampons extending my cycle (plugging me up … I’d get a huge gush after pulling one out), and would use pads during the day and nothing at night (I stopped flowing heavily at night) and just made a beeline for the bathroom first thing in the morning. I wouldn’t use pads at night becuase I got tired of the diaper rash (sweat overpowered the effects of dri-weave). I’d use a tampon for one or two of the last days to help alleviate the diaper rash problem.
Helping with cramps … Vibrator was always good for it, also have a vibriating pillow (on my lower back at work), or uncooked rice in a sock nuked in the microwave for 2 min. Excercise always seemed to up my flow and clean things out faster. Also sipping hot tea all day long.
Old pads and new … we had the old ones at summer camp (I was a counsellor at sleep away camp in 1993) by the case … used them for torches. We’d wrap them around a stick, soak them in some flammable liquid, and ignite them. March around and then light the nightly campfire with them. New ones were standard by the time it was my time (Are You There God, It’s Me, Margaret puzzled me for years) and my favorite comment about them from an unnamed male friend was “Oh, the sticky side attaches to the panties”. Stopped getting stuck on them when I finally invested in a package of saftey razors. Makes cycling so much less sloppy.