Thanks. Thanks to you all (with the obvious exception. Thanks, Asbestos Mango, for sweeping that detritus off where it belongs.) for sharing your own pain and offering comfort. Nick’s the first horse I ever owned, and a very special guy. He’s been a well-loved member of every barn I’ve ever boarded him at. He’s a funny, attention-demanding, good-natured, quirky character, who’ll carefully pack a beginner, and (in his younger days) give a good rider a great ride. I never spend time with him without laughing.
I’ve been very lucky that Nick’s been so healthy for the last few years, but the signs of decline are there. Each year, more gray hairs infiltrate his rich red coat. This year, dustings of silver have invaded the brows over his warm, wise eyes. My former easy-keeper fat boy now begins to lose weight as the cold weather arrives, and needs extra feedings to keep him at a healthy weight. The once-robust muscling of his hindquarters is thinning out, and not just from lower levels of exercise than he knew in his prime.
Nick’s had arthritis in his hocks for many years. Supplements, lots of turnout, and once-yearly injections have kept him serviceably sound, but flareups seem to be coming more often lately. I think our cantering days are over. He’s not in frank heaves, but he’s showing signs of developing it. This spring, he had to go on an antihistamine for the first time. It worked, but…
Nick’s also had a tendency for many years to flip up his soft palate, trapping it in his epiglottis – usually in speed work, but also when eating. Which may be why, a couple of weeks ago, he had an episode of choke – two hours’ drive away, at my friend’s farm in New Hampshire, where he’s spending the summer out on pasture. You may imagine my feelings as I did what little I could over the phone to cope with this (wasn’t able to leave work and go to him). He’s all right now, but that small brush with mortality scared the bejeesus out of me. And having choked once…
Well. With careful tending of his needs, and a generous helping of luck, I’m hopeful that I’ll have him around to demand his carrots and belly scratches for a good long while to come. But what seemed like an abstract event, a long way off, is now much too close, too real, for comfort.
Ah, there’s more, much more, I want to say, in answer to your compassionate comments and sharing of yuor own griefs. But it’s time for me to go to the barn where my middle-aged Thoroughbred Ben awaits me, to do my chores for him, and prepare Nick’s stall for his return from his summer vacation – this Saturday! He’s been gone since the beginning of May, and except for a few visits, I haven’t seen him since then. Will he forgive me for taking him away from those lush green pastures? With enough carrots and belly scratches, you bet he will!