anne, i feel yer pain.
one fine fall afternoon, long ago when the queen was a wee thing and the queen’s little sister even wee-er, said little sister did her very best to burn down *our *kitchen.
said little sister, in all other things a sober and responsible young lady, had A Very Bad Habit of putting a pan of grease on the stove to heat up and then walking away from it for a while. you all know where this is going of course…
mother and i had both reprimanded little sister MANY TIMES that the practice was A Very Bad Habit, to which little sister repeatedly ignored or simply blew off.
little sisters. can’t kill ‘em. the neighbors would talk.
so, on that fine fall afternoon i happened to be home sick from work. damn good thing, too. our mother was confined to a wheelchair, so as it turned out, things could have been A Lot Worse. i was as far from the kitchen as you could physically get – way on the other side of the house, relaxing in front of the tv - when I heard my name called.
the next time I heard my name - about a nanosecond later – it was the Sound Incarnate of absolute, utter terror at a volume and register i didn’t know little sister was physically capable of. it was then that i first twigged to the possibility that little sister was probably never going to be an ellen ripley in the face of a dire emergency.
i don’t remember going from the tv room to the kitchen. i don’t remember grabbing a box of baking soda from under the kitchen sink. i don’t remember ripping off the top of the (previously-unopened) box. apparently while dumping the fire-filled pan in the sink at the same time (note to self: shoulda not done that. should gotten a lid to smother the flames, but i was a little preoccupied with a wall fire by that point. you know. priorities.).
the next thing i do remember is coming back to myself, busily throwing handfuls at said wall as well as the stove, both of which were blazing merrily away. a few more seconds and it would have burned through the false ceiling tile and then it would have been game over for the queen’s amateur firefighting stint. from my reporting days and hanging around firemen all those years, i know a fire doubles in size every minute. it would have been ‘grab the mom, the dogs, and the cat, and vamoose the premises immediately if not sooner.’
oh, and you know that bit about mothers lifting cars off their kids? i looked at that box of baking soda later – what was left of it. it was constructed of plastic-reinforced cardboard. thick, plastic reinforced cardboard.
yeah. there’s a lot to be said for adrenaline.
needless to say, that was The Last Time little sister indulged in her Very Bad Habit. it scared her so badly she didn’t cook with grease in a pan until after she was married, some ten years later.
yanno what really sucked?
guess who ended up having to repaint the damn kitchen all by herself because Someone Else scorched the sh*t out of it?? the little snot had to go back to college the next afternoon. 