mwbrooks, I think that’s got to be basically right.
The more I think about it, it can’t be about the direction of individual air molecules hitting the strand. Because even if the air molecules were just resting on top of the strand, moving the strand into the vacuum of your mouth allows the air molecules to fall into the position previously occupied by the strand, lowering their potential energy. So even for air molecules that are pushing straight down it’s energetically favorable for the strand to move into the mouth.
Plus, I just can’t see any reason for the force not to be exerted normal to the surface.
And certainly in my example where we suck on both ends and the strand breaks, we’d expect it to first stretch and thin out around the point where it breaks, right?
So I think what we’re left with is this:
As the air presses down on the strand, the strand distorts in such a way that its radius decreases slightly and its end extends further into the mouth. If its being sucked at both ends, this keeps going until it breaks – or if the pressure isn’t great enough, until the attractive forces between the atoms of the strand are great enough to keep it from stretching any further. (The attraction increases as it stretches, like springs between the atoms trying to pull them back to their equilibrium position.) For a stronger strand the attractive forces are greater, making it harder to break.
Now, if it’s only being sucked at one end, the strand stretches asymmetrically – air pressure on the other end keeps it from stretching, and it only stretches in the direction of the mouth. The attractive forces between the atoms eventually overcome this and shrink the atoms back together – the shrinking is also asymmetric, with everything shrinking towards the end that isn’t being pushed on (the one in the mouth). So basically, the spaghetti strand shimmies into the mouth like a slinky (oscillating longitudinally).
If it’s a more rigid material, you can’t stretch it as much before it snaps back, so you have faster longitudinal oscillations with a smaller amplitude. But you can still suck it.
In any case, Cecil’s explanation is wrong.
Maybe we can move on to solving other mysteries, like why the content of this thread makes Google ads want to sell me a “skin cone” to undo my circumcision.