I can’t believe this one hasn’t been asked before, but a search of the archives shows nothing. How does ‘flying off the handle’ equate to being irrational or angry? I can see how a pot could fly off a handle, but the pot doesn’t get angry, nor does the handle. Do people hop when they’re angry? Are rabbits always pissed off about something?
“Flying off the handle” refers to the loose head of a hammer flying from the handle during use (cite).
“Hopping mad” apparently really does come from the idea that one would be angry enough to jump around (cite).
Quick answers. I’m not quite satisfied with the second one, though. The cite just repeats the meaning of the phrase, but doesn’t speak to the etymology. If one uses the British meaning of mad=crazy, rather than mad=angry, “hopping mad” could have derived from observing those afflicted with St. Vitus’ Dance. Just a thought.
You never saw my old boss get mad. Throwing his hat on the ground, literally hopping from one foot to the other as he uttered the foulest imprecations that he could conjure up. (Fortunately, that sort of anger was reserved for inanimate objects such as recalcitrant tractors or unfortunate changes of the weather. He could actually control himself when an employee messed up.)
Another cite for jumping up and down mad