Wow. I really didn’t intend to start a GD thread, but here it is…
For those of you who are opposed to the whole idea of people who have fallen on hard times getting a bit of help from the government, well, I’m not allowed to use those kinds of words in this forum.
Acutally, over the past several days, my mom and I have been talking about applying for food stamps ourselves. Why? Because she just lost her job, through no fault of her own, and between what her unemployment insurance will net her until she finds a job (she’s taking some computer classes and hopes when she’s finished she’ll be getting a good job) and what I’m making at Wal-Mart, sharing an apartment, we’re barely holding on by our fingernails.
I was fired from my last job, where I had no insurance, four days after an emergency room visit that I’m being billed $1700 for, plus another $400 for a doctor who spent all of five minutes talking to me. I also have close to $5000 in credit card debt that I racked up, about half of it in medical expenses and prescription medication costs incurred during periods of time when I was employed but had no insurance, the rest from having to pay the rent, utilities and other basic expenses during periods of time when I or my mother were unemployed. We live in Las Vegas, moved out here because we had heard that good paying jobs were easy to find, but it turned out not to be true. I made good money as a craps dealer for a while, but when I moved on in search of a better-paying job, I ran into trouble. In the casino business, it is the rule, rather than the exception, to hire people then let them go when they are near the end of their probationary period in order to avoid paying insurance expenses. About the only way to keep a job is to be in your early twenties, single with no kids who might become ill, and be in absolute perfect health.
I was recently forced to cut back on my hours at Wal-Mart (from 40 to 32) when I started school to become a massage therapist, and found that the schedule was more than my body could handle. I have chronic back problems, which were exacerbated by the 56 hour week I was putting in, was missing a lot of work due to back pain (which is much better, btw. One of the benefits of school is I get to be “practiced” on by some of the more advanced students, many of whom are already excellent therapists)
The Job itself is also taking a physical toll on me. Being a cashier at Wal-Mart when you already have back problems, standing in one spot, where the only movement you have an opportunity to do is twisting and stretching in ways the human body just wasn’t designed to (the cash register setup is an ergonomic nightmare, and many, if not most, cashiers have some back problems if they’ve been at it a while. I try to maintain good posture and be careful about how I move, but it just isn’t possible to do that and keep product moving across the scanner fast enough to keep management happy).
Doing massage is a lot easier on my body. We are trained in body mechanics as well as anatomy, physiology and basic techniques, and the movements involved in doing massage are actually very natural to the body, provided you observe correct posture and stance, use your body weight instead of hand, arm and shoulder muscles when you need to use deeper pressure…
But, once I graduate, there will be the matter of getting my license, which, due to the political environment in Clark County, is a lengthy and expensive process, and I will have to buy a massage table, which is also not cheap. Then I will have to actually find a job as a therapist, in a very competitive market, which will probably take at least a couple of months.
I have no savings- it was eaten up during my frequent periods of unemployment.
So, the only way I can see of getting myself out of debt and saving up the money for my licensing and massage supplies is to get a little government help. I’ve resisted the idea for a long time, because I really hated the idea of living off the taxpayers’ dime, but I figure it’s a trade-off. Once I’m working as a MT, I’ll be making a lot more money than I am now, and the tax revenues I will be contributing based on my higher income will, over time, far outweigh what I will be needing for, well, I hope not more than a year, and probably less.
But getting that government money will be helping to put me in an occupation where I will be contributing to the health and well-being of others, and where I will be a taxpaying citizen (not that I haven’t been all along).
Do I feel entitiled to this help? No. I’ve just gotten to the point where my needs outweigh my pride.
Will I feel bad about accepting aid if I do decide to apply? No. If a person who has worked hard all their adult life falls on hard times they shouldn’t feel bad about asking for and receiving help.
Will I be using that food-stamp money to buy chips, cookies and soda pop? Hell, no, and if I catch my mom doing it, I’ll give her a good talking to about it.
But really, the whole point of starting this thread was to feel y’all out about whether a government program that is designed to meet nutritional needs of people who use it should be restricted to buying nutritious foods, not to start a debate on the welfare state.