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@Beckdawrek

I looked it up, which I’m loathe to do TYVM.

The word you want is “loath”, not “loathe”. See

Words one can get confused

Since it’s been brought up, to recap: loath - adjective : unwilling to do something contrary to one’s ways of thinking : reluctant loathe - transitive verb : to dislike greatly and often with disgust or intolerance : detest