Abortion can be bad. It can, under certain circumstances, be highly traumatic to the person who would’ve been the mother. Under certain other circumstances, it can be deeply troubling to other people if it appears to be elected for in a cavalier & repetitive fashion.
Abortion can, of course, be a blessing and a great relief. Millions of women have “voted with their feet” — very very few of them were under duress; very very few of them chose an abortion that they did not in fact want. And while some of them made this choice with an air of gravity and a sense of profound loss (e.g., wrong time, wrong man, wrong decade of my life, wrong chromosomes, or gee I wish I’d known I was pregnant before I took all that Accutane, but under some other circumstance I wish I could have this baby), other abortions are not so imbued (e.g., don’t want a baby, birth control failed, early relatively non-invasive procedure available, gee am I glad I don’t live in some repressive regime where this would be difficult or impossible).
I am comfortable designating the rate of abortions as unnecessarily high (perhaps 90% is as good a figure as any), and I am comfortable designating the unnecessary abortions as “sad” and in some sense “bad”. I would like to see abortions trimmed down to those cases where pregnancy was originally intended and desired but something has gone wrong on some level and in some sense. I’d like to see “oops” abortions rendered virtually nonexistent through better birth control technology for both sexes (requiring both sexes to affirmatively turn birth control OFF in order to cause a pregnancy); I’d like to see abortions caused by inadequate sex education, puritanical doublethink-denial of one’s own desire to get laid, and other forms of social barriers to possessing and being adept as using control of one’s reproductive capacities made virtually extinct by eliminating the social causes thereof; and of course likewise for pregnancies resulting from any and all forms of nonconsensual sex.
I would still want abortion to be legal, safe, convenient, and affordable for the remaining situations in which a woman is pregnant and no longer wishes to be.
I would be happy and proud to join my financial controbutions with those of pro-life people to make it less and less likely that people find themselves pregnant without intending to be.
Ultimately, though, I would not take it upon myself to point to a specific abortion (post or potential) and say “this one would be ‘bad’ if it happened” or “this was a ‘bad’ abortion”. That’s not for me to judge. That’s for the pregnant woman to judge. It’s her call.