I don’t have a lot of specific things I demand from the guys I date. For me, if the communication and/or affection taper off, I have a problem with that. I don’t just mean the sex, either. I’m talking about hand-holding, cuddling, kissing hello and goodbye and in-between, things like that. I dated a guy that just wasn’t affectionate at all and it just drove me batty.
On the other hand, I also dated a guy that was all over me constantly, but he never really wanted to TALK. He’d tell me I was beautiful and that he loved me, or that his friends were jealous of his girlfriend, but I couldn’t pry a real conversation ABOUT anything out of him.
So I guess I’m saying I need a decent amount of both.