ok girls, when your dating someone, what do you like for the man to do for you? Flowers, dinners, watch TV or movies together? Phone calls? and after you are with someone for awhile what usually stops? is it the things you like the most ot things that doesnt matter?
Me?? an asshole?? You better believe it!
Heather Lee
XheatherleeX@aol.com
I love being treated tenderly, receiving flowers, having the door held open for me, being held and cuddled and just generally being spoiled.
My SO has been really good about continuing all of these things without having to be reminded. But he did tell me that if he starts getting lazy I’m suppose to slap him aside the head and remind him.
They’re not Hot Flashes,
They’re Power Surges!
Honesty, equal conversation, and common courtesy. The rest, while nice, are just frills.
Coldfire
“You know how complex women are”
That, or she’s not getting enough of his sweet lovin’…
…but nah, I think she’s just looking for a guy she can fuck up the ass. 
And I wonder when I sing along with you, if everything could ever feel this real forever,
If anything could ever be this good again.
–Foo Fighters
No, Coldfire… Heather gets mad at me when I promise to call but something comes up - like I fall asleep, or a friend comes over and stays too late where I don’t want to call her so late - and she is worrying that I am losing interest.
I am not. I love her with all my heart, and ultimately, rarely a day goes by where we do not chat and/or talk to each other.
Yer pal,
Satan
If I do my part right, none of these should go away, but the first three are the most important.
“But you’re a man! You’re not supposed to post on this thread!”
Oh. Well. My. Bad.
You say “cheesy” like that’s a BAD thing.
Oh yeah. Number 6 is very important too.
Come to think of it, so is the lotsa sex part. And being spoiled is always nice
Oh well. Back to the ladies.
You say “cheesy” like that’s a BAD thing.
Me?? an asshole?? You better believe it!
Heather Lee
XheatherleeX@aol.com
Yeah, I bet all the women in relationships with you would be really upset if you didn’t keep it up…
snicker
And I wonder when I sing along with you, if everything could ever feel this real forever,
If anything could ever be this good again.
–Foo Fighters
Drain Bead
OUCH you slammed him on that one.
oh yeah…BTW I found a great guy I can fuck up the ass any time I want 
woohooo for me!
Me?? an asshole?? You better believe it!
Heather Lee
XheatherleeX@aol.com
Well, I’d be the one who’d be really upset if I couldn’t keep it up.
As far as the lady goes, I can improvise. wink, wink. Nudge nudge.
< ahem > right. Back to the ladies.
You say “cheesy” like that’s a BAD thing.
A sense of humor
Honesty
Openess
I don’t have a lot of specific things I demand from the guys I date. For me, if the communication and/or affection taper off, I have a problem with that. I don’t just mean the sex, either. I’m talking about hand-holding, cuddling, kissing hello and goodbye and in-between, things like that. I dated a guy that just wasn’t affectionate at all and it just drove me batty.
On the other hand, I also dated a guy that was all over me constantly, but he never really wanted to TALK. He’d tell me I was beautiful and that he loved me, or that his friends were jealous of his girlfriend, but I couldn’t pry a real conversation ABOUT anything out of him.
So I guess I’m saying I need a decent amount of both.
How timely… the following appeared in my emailbox earlier this afternoon:
WHAT WOMEN WANT
What I Want In A Man, Original List
What I Want In A Man, Revised List
“ChrisCTP-…the sweetheart of the SDMB…” --Diane
Chris’ Homepage: Domestic Bliss
I can do both lists, except shaving on weekends.
I feel that I should mention that the guy I dated that wasn’t affectionate was a GREAT conversationalist, and that he and I are still good friends. The relationship just didn’t work.
Well,I’ll try to remember.It’s been awhile. Calling is very important. If he’s interested,he’ll call. This guy used to call me at 11 p.m. and we’d talk til 5 a.m.He was a night owl. Showing up when you say you will works too. Honesty,faithfulness,having a car!
Says heatherlee–
“…any relationship your in your woman must be very happy!”
Hell, anytime you’re in your woman must be very happy.
For that matter, you have a very happy “relationship” anytime you’re in any woman!!
Fruedian typos and mis-placed modifiers. You gotta love 'em!
I like a man who is oblivious to my flaws–then I can be oblivious to his.