The description of the audience’s reaction to Mr. Rogers as written in the article is extremely unfair; it also dishonestly leaves out much of his speech to imply a message and effect that were not intended and not there. The audience is clearly absolutely thrilled he’s there to receive the award. Many of them are almost in tears just when he walks up on stage. Everyone under 40 is positively starstruck. There’s not an insincere reaction in the auditorium.
As to anyone who attacks Mr. Rogers, I can only feel sorry for them that they would be so stupid as to misunderstand him. Fred Rogers was not about telling children a bunch of bullshit like “you’re super dooper special indigo child and nobody should criticize you.” The entire point or Mr. Rogers’ Neighborhood was being honest to children. He told children the straight dope on a level they could understand. He spoke about divorce once, with a frankness and honesty. He didn’t tell kids they were BETTER than other kids; he told them they were different, which they are, and to be confident in that.
Actually, I was wrong. The entire point of Mr. Rogers wasn’t honesty. It was that he respected children. He thought of them as humans who deserved his respect - with an approach suitable to children, but respectful nonetheless. Never, not once did he PANDER to children. I cannot even begin to imagine Fred Rogers, in real life, spoiling a child.
Fred Rogers respected children because he just respected everyone, of course, but the reason he took to the airwaves with it was to held children respect THEMSELVES. Teaching a children that it is okay to like and respect themselves is not spoiling them. Telling them that they are worth something is not a lie. Telling them that they should be proud of themselves is not a dodge. Those are basic, fundamental life skills. Those are things a well adjusted person needs to have. They don’t equate to thinking you’re perfect; Rogers often spoke to his audience about dealing with the negative parts of themselves, about how to deal with being in trouble or making mistakes or failing at things. It took me all of two minutes to find an example on Youtube of him telling his audience, in essence, “there are some things you simply can’t do.” Not a week went by that he didn’t deal with something like that.
How many people do you know who have at least partially screwed their lives up not because they though too much of themselves, but because they through too LITTLE of themselves? Because they lacked confidence, self-awareness, because inside they were fearful and didn’t respect themselves? How many people have you know who got into crappy relationships because they craved attention and affection? How many shirked from finishing school or getting a better job because they just assumed they’d fail? How many had shitty parents who didn’t like them and spent their lives sorting that out? How many people do you know who never became what they could of because they didn’t think they could? How many do you know? I’ve lost count of them.
Fred Rogers knew a lot of people like that, I bet. He looked at every kid and said “maybe I can help that person understand they deserve their own respect, that they deserve their own hard work.” He did more for Americans in his career than FOX will do if it broadcasts for a million years.