Hmmm, well, as a parent who Unschooled my son until he chose to enter high school (where he excelled, was very popular with both peers and teachers, took several AP courses, served as Features, Photo and Editorial Editor of the school paper and was a star of the Drama Club…he’s currently an 18 yr old full time university student) I have lots of opinions on compulsory, public education and its potential drawbacks as well as with good experiences with it.
I also have an 11 yr old daughter in public school currently…she entered at age 7. While she is doing well (but already not being challenged enough) I wish I could bring her home and give her the time and real-life education her brother got, but as a widow back at University FT myself, that’s difficult. Maybe I will try to work it out so she can skip middle school and just do high school and/or college and get the best of both worlds.
FTR, I was also a preschool teacher for about 15 years, my first degree being in Child Development, so I also know a bit about running a classroom (albeit one of 13 3-4 yr olds…yep, gotta stay on top of those supplies and make sure they wash out their brushes;)). Also have worked in the public system as an individual, special needs assistant.
My actual views are that compulsory education is, overall, a negative. But that because we have chosen (or ended up with) a society in which work/home/education and damn near every other aspect of our lives is specialized and professionalized as opposed to integrated, most have little choice in the matter, even IF Unschooling or schooling at home is legal in their state. I happened to be able to stay home/work at home or at my own business and so keep my son home/with me and do things like zoo, museum and other trips and social get-togethers with other Unschoolers and others in general. Yes, I sacrificed finacially to do it, but for many, it is not even an issue of sacrifice but of impossible (though some have formed co-ops and worked it out regardless). Fact is, public education in the U.S. functions largely as a free child care which allows parents to be employed in settings outside the home and for others.
That being acknowledged, the way we fund public schools is insane. One, we base the funding for individual districts on the property taxes of those areas, resulting in HUGE discrepencies between the education of children from poor areas and those of wealthier ones. One of the most common argument in favor of free public schooling is that it provides an equal footing for everyone, regardless of background. Bullshit. The rich kids go to schools with the best resources, often best teachers and parents who have the time and money to be involved. The poor ones go to schools with leaky ceilings, textbooks from the time of Kennedy and parents with far less free time and money to spend. Segregation by class and/or race is still the norm.
The school supply list gets longer and more costly every year. This last year, I bought everything on the list EXCEPT the 2 reams of copy paper. That paper is for the OFFICE to use, not the class, and adds about $10 to a $30 list…I couldn’t afford it and feel that the taxes we all pay should cover such funding issues (even as a renter, I pay them, in my rent). I don’t have an issue with having to buy far more than my child will actually need to cover the needs of those whose parents can’t afford anything (even though as a widow on SS and student loans and Pell grants, I can barely afford it!) but for certain items, my daughter does…she picks out a pencil box or notebooks or pens and wants them to be HERS. With a few such items, I say, “you write your name on it and keep it in your backpack”.
At any rate, to mandate any fee or cost to public education means that there will always be some children who will be left out due to the economic situation of their families. That defeats the entire (supposed) point of free public education. Instead, we need to be demanding that our taxes be used to fully fund the schools so that more and more of the out of pocket costs don’t keep falling on parents and teachers (who buy a LOT out of their own pocket just because they CARE and aren’t given the funds).
I spent a lot of years working with a lot of kids, many of them from poor/working class homes. As teacher, one has to set the rules and an example. We take care of our things because if we don’t, we can’t PAINT tomorrow (or whatever). I usually set it up so that a few kids were appointed to help with the cleaning up (and those positions were highly coveted…they looked forward to their turn!)
Same way I set the example by being all shocked to find the books scattered about…“OMG! Look at all our lovely books all over the place! We’d better pick them up, they might get torn up and then we won’t have them and/or the library won’t let us check any more out next trip!”
Of course, individuals were expected and encouraged to clean up their own messes…part of my function was to catch when they didn’t and remind them.
See, kids can easily learn different sets of rules. At home, it may be OK to break things, leave messes, hit, whatever, but AT SCHOOL, it’s NOT. They get that really fast. And I’ve worked with some kids who came from such impoverished or dysfuntional homes that they’d never HELD a book or paintbrush or nice toy and had to be taught how to handle them. Also my job.
I learned a long time ago that we should never judge or penalize a child for the faults of their family of origin. Children are amazingly adaptable and full of potential and they all deserve the same “nice things” and oppourtunities in life. Maybe they never had any at home, but that only means it is all the more important to make sure they have some at school/elsewhere in life, so they can learn to appreciate them and grow to their full potential. JMHO.