I think MPSIMS is the right place for this. Remember, I am giving advice, not asking for it.
Also, I shared this once before, on another boards. But it will be interesting to share it on these boards. People on the SDMB are very law-abiding, it would seem. I am curious how they will even react to my advice.
First off, Disclaimer: I am law-abiding, as I assume most or all of you are. That having been said…
Also, where I first got this information. I have tell you of a wonderful book, I bought in 1997. It’s called “The Court TV Cradle-to-Grave Legal Survival Guide” © 1995 American Lawyer Media, LP and Little, Brown and Co., Inc. , ISBN 0-316-03699-4 (hardcover), ISBN 0-316-03663-3 (paperback). This book is a treasure. As the title suggests, you can literally answer any legal question with it. It probably is out-of-print. But I’m sure you could get it used, if you shopped around a little. Try ebay.
Anyways, while perusing the book once, I came to the section on police interrogations. You know, the police don’t have to read you your Miranda rights until they actually choose to interrogate you.
Then anything, apparently, is fair game for them to do. Let me give you just one shocking example. The police will tell you they are preparing to make a plea deal with you (according to this book). All they need for you to do is to confess to the crime. The only thing is, this is bullsh*t. The police don’t have the power to plea deal. Only the prosecution does! Shocking, no?
Also, I once heard on TV that they will sometimes tell you they talked to your friends and relatives, and they all ratted on you. Only thing is, they did no such thing! More shocking, no? And of course even if you’re perfectly innocent, they will still talk to you for hours unending, just to wear you down.
The best advice, if you should find yourself in this position, is ask for a lawyer. They can’t do these awful things if you have one. Of course, with the courts getting more conservative by the day, this still may some day not be the case. But it couldn’t hurt.
The strange thing about this is, as I alluded to above, the prosecution can’t do this. The courts have stepped in and said they have to stick to whatever deal they make with you, especially if they get it in writing. (Also, as I said, this book is 20 years old. I shudder to think what may be going on now.)
One more thing, I might as well add. As I said, the best legal advice you can give someone who has been arrested, is get a lawyer. But there is a moral, call it, argument I have heard some people make. If you have hurt someone, esp. a little child, or something like that, you should really come clean. Not for your sake, but for the sake of society. (The Court TV guide also briefly touches on this point.)
And I just have to ask, anyone else have horror stories like the ones I just gave (personal or that you heard)? Please share it. But keep it clean and legal.
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