http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showthread.php?s=&threadid=197859
The solution is simple, though disturbing.
You must be presenting evidence that you have procured human slavery upon others during the course of your lifetime.
Money is an excellent indicator of this.
Money.
Wealth.
Jokes, puns.
Gossip.
Critisism.
Stories.
Teasing.
Flirting.
Laughing.
Smiling.
If there is no butt (as in butt of a pun or joke), no ambiguity, no degree of mind reading games, you will be forced to hire out prostitution with money that you have aquired from doing these things prior to the encounter.
You need to violate somebody’s consent in order to not offend a female with sexual advance of some sort. In relation to the thread from which this spawned, one method is overt fondling or forced rape. These methods only are useful if you wish to have a female know that they are having their consent violated or manufactured. If you want to manufacture the consent through the subconscious, you will need to engage in the behavior listed in single words with periods at the end, at the top of my reply. There is no other solution.
Your only other option is to not recieve sex from a female, if you are a male.
Females are not wired like males. If a female is going to grab an unknown male out of a bar of unknown status and without dancing or conversation, simply for sex, this male will need physical evidence of their domineering position in our species in order to be the one actually selected from this ‘random’ catch.
It takes very little time to observe female receptivity to:
Money.
Wealth.
Jokes, puns.
Gossip.
Critisism.
Stories.
Teasing.
Flirting.
Laughing.
Smiling.
When this receptivity is observed, this is an immediate sign to the male, that the female is seeking human slave procurement in exchange for sexual consent. You can show evidence that you reciprocate these values by participating in your communication with her using these devices.
At this juncture, you can make a decision to procure human slavery and manufacture their consent with the offering, or you can remain abstinent.
The issue that is confusing you, is that you assume that behaving in a manner that does not swap human value will procure sexual consent from a female. It is selectively advantageous for females to be oblivious to their procurement of human slavery with sexual consent, in order to reproduce with very little if any effort. By inverting these values, females can run parsimony in a manner very similar to believing in a God. This dual benefit is responsible for their life expectancy increase with respect to males. Two mechanisms are being used simultaneously to effect human slave procurement while hiding the perception of it from the conscious mind.
I hope that clarified the situation for you.