I came across an interesting letter to the editor in this month’s issue of Reason (a libertarian mag, very pro on gay rights obviously.)
The author was a gay man, and he had an interesting perspective. He argued that having state sanction for marriage subjects the partners to all the intrusive legislation and regulation that the state imposes on married partners.
He went on to note that “nothing in the law prevents gay couples from owning property jointly, creating enforceable partnership agreements, powers of attorney, medical proxies, or any number of other legally binding agreements that define and document the nature of the relationship.” He noted that this would be following the examples of “thousands of practicing polygamous families who, rather than lobbying for polygamist ‘rights’, simply lives their lives in peace.” Basically, his argument is that the absence of government intrusion is a blessing.
Now, it’s true that marriage as sanctioned by the state provides a certain set of rights and obligations between the partners, and it may be very convenient to simply have the state sanction and get that set as a bundle of rights. But as a future attorney presently taking Business Organizations and knowing a little about property and partnership, I suspect we lawyers could create a document package that would convey the same rights as married couples enjoy without imposing the government’s intrusive regulation.
As I’ve previously stated, it’s my personal opinion that the state should butt out of personal relationships and neither sanction nor prohibit any form of relationship in which peaceful people which to co-exist. I’m 100% for equal treatment of hetero and homosexual relationships. But there are two ways to equalize it. Might it not be better to strip away the state sanction for hetero couples than to extend such sanction, and the intrusive laws that accompany it, to homosexual relations as well?