I look forward to the day when the neurodiversity people stop telling parents of autistic children how to run their lives. (I also look forward to the day when they divulge their past with transparency, accountability rather than retrospective historical rewritings…) They tell us that all we need is to be tolerant, and allow autistics to blossom. They actively… with fervent zeal, try to brow-beat parents into not making a choice to treat their children as they believe is best. There is disagreement as to what constitutes helpful treatment and what doesn’t.
If a child doesn’t test positive for mercury, so be it. What’s the problem? There is no defensiveness needed here…
If a child tests positive for mercury, AND for lead, what then? No doubt, the neurodiversity group would still say: “Don’t treat.”
The thing is it isn’t their right to try to dictate to any parent what that parent choses to do. They can call it child abuse, but frankly, I consider the abuse that these people who say they are autistic, hand out to parents even worse abuse.
But then, if the neurodiversity crowd are truly autistic, I guess we need to cut them slack because they won’t understand that what they are doing and saying to parents is also abuse, because autistic people cannot see themselves and their behaviour with the understanding that “normal” people would.
In my opinion, the whole debate as to what constitutes autism has gone from the shaky, to the sublime to the utterly gaudy.
It reminds me of another debate, if you can call it that… That of calcium. For decades, women have been told to take calcium, because it prevents osteoporosis, and reduces the risk of heart attacks and stroke.
As of last weekend we were told that actually it does the reverse, and there are now five studies to prove it.
http://www.stuff.co.nz/print/4211969a10.html
http://www.nzherald.co.nz/section/story.cfm?c_id=204&objectid=10465362&pnum=0
The good professor is suggesting halving the dose (on no good scientific basis). Why?
Can’t upset the industry, can we?
In fact, if they bothered to look a bit deeper, they would find in pubmed that magnesium and boron are the keys which hold calcium into the bones, and that calcium supplements are unnecessary. But you can’t patent cheap magnesium and boron, or make an industry out of eating better, so that isn’t going to happen. Instead these women will be prescribed very costly new generation osteoporosis drugs as well as half dose calcium.
The other thing they haven’t figured is that free calcium in a person with cancer starting to multiply, makes cancer go wild. Why haven’t they figured that out? I guess they don’t believe articles in their own medical journals, or least ways, decided that it was perhaps an anomaly.
What relevance does this have to the autism debate? There is a remarkable parallel. Belief often precludes any possibility of “seeing” the wood for the trees.
In my cynicism, I will await the continuing saga of serial goal post shifting on autism diagnosis and industry creation, with the same cynicism that I greeted the advice to take calcium supplements decades ago. I also recall one day in 1980, being told that taking folic acid to prevent neural defects was akin to listening to witches and old wives.
Yes, that was 11 years before the first study showed that witches and old wives knew more than obstetricians.
Here we have a medical industry in which multitudinous flip-flops continue to occur, and prescribed circuitous logic predominates. I believe that parents have the right to make their own choices not only about whether or not they want autism treatment for their children, but also whether their children receive vaccines, whether they (parents) take calcium supplements, and indeed, how they run their lives.
I don’t believe the neurodiversity group have the right to tell anyone how to live their lives, or bring up their children.
If the neurodiversity movement believe that they have the right to live as they wish, and be left to get on with it, then they need to accord that same right to other people.