You’re right, there are a TON of videos out there and some of them are pure crap. Some are pretty good too.
Step One, get a YouTube account if you don’t already have one.
Don’t think of YouTube as individual videos. Think of YouTube as a series of the CHANNELS they offer, and subscribe to those channels of the content providers where you realize you can respect their advice. When you have a YouTube account, as you watch videos, other videos will show up in your feed that might be of interest to you. Eventually you’ll be able to go down a rabbit hole of topics that are of interest to you; and this will allow you to subscribe to other providers that offer good content.
I’m obviously a big fan of the Woodworking channels on YouTube. I’m of the opinion that immersing yourself in all of the woodworking topics that interest you on YouTube (even if you don’t have the tools required for that subject) will have a tangentially related benefit.
Here are some of the channels I have subscribed to on YouTube:
William Ng - He’s the owner of a pretty well known School of Fine Woodworking (https://wnwoodworkingschool.com/).
WoodWorkWeb with Colin Knecht. - I like this guy, but I don’t think I’ve ever seen a project he’s built; however if you can make a jig for that project; he’s your guy!
I like him mostly because he gives a lot of simple advice for beginner woodworkers; and generally shows how to make things easier.
Woodworking for Mere Mortals - Stevin Marin was mentioned above. He’s kind of goofy; but I like his videos because he shows how you can make things with the basic set of tools and not have to worry about having the best tools out there.
The Wood Whisperer - Marc Spagnolo is the guy you could be if you had the best of the best. He also regularly broadcasts on youtube live. He’s good at explaining and demonstrating technique of more advanced topics. Related to that; There’s also a pretty active channel on Facebook called The Woodworking Community | Facebook that’s kind of fun to follow.
Popular Woodworking - The youtube accompaniment to the Popular Woodworking magazine. A variety of topics and skill levels. i.e. vaccuum bag veneering to marshmallow catapults.
Jackman Works - More of a creative woodworkers/carpentry site. To quote from his youtube channel: "Home for woodworking, construction, upcycling, reclaiming, welding, epoxy, etc. My goals are to inspire you to make cool things, get people excited about making, and teaching while keeping it super fun and interesting. "
Jon Peters - “Jon Peters Art & Home teaches and inspires you to make art, woodworking, and home improvement projects at home. Whether you’re a beginning artist, a practical do-it-yourselfer, or a professional craftsman, my videos will provide a how-to guide to great projects. I will show you the tools, plans, and tricks of the trade to bring art and design to your home.”
Matthias Wandel - Not sure if I should include this one; but his videos are interesting. He gives his take on woodworking through an engineers eye. Personally, I wonder if he’s on the spectrum a little bit.
Woodsmith Shop - The accompanying channel to a TV show here in the USA on educational TV.
Paul Sellers Woodwork - This guys is the king of all woodworking as far as I’m concerned. No powertools and everything just comes out incredible!