I don’t normally give money to people on the street, mainly for safety reasons involved with being distracted, pulling out my wallet, etc. I decided I would try another way, and see what would help.
When the kids reached driving age, I decided to volunteer at a local shelter. I spent 5 years working 1-2 evenings per week with a long-term* support and reintegration group. We provided food, child-care, job training, financial training, job interview simulations, and even free legal advice to our “classes”. Each class was 20 people, with (usually) a pair of teachers, and ran for about 3 months. At the end were graduations, often with local companies with whom we’d developed relationships attending (with applications). Unfortunately only around 25% made it to the end of the training, but their success rate after that was pretty good. According to the director, our long term (5 year) success rate was out of the park (for this type of intervention). When I started it was run out of a small church, when I left they had some large digs provided by the city, had gotten the police to locate a station inside, and were negotiating to bring a courtroom (family court) into their building.
The thing that stood out mostly for me, was how incredibly hard it is to bring someone (or a family) from the street all the way back to apartment, job, checking account, etc. I’m no expert but most of the problems revolve around getting all these things coordinated and in place at the same time. It’s like a self-referencing cluster-fuck where every element depends on every other element. Need an address to get a job, need a checking account to get paid, need a job to get an address. Add in parole requirements and it was insanely hard for us to help them get all the parts in place – but we did our best.
The other massive barrier was the geographic separation of all the city/state offices which they must visit. Add children, school and (sometimes) a parole officer and it seemed almost impossible sometimes.
It was a huge eye-opener for me. I thought at the beginning “how hard can this be?” But by the end I had received my comeuppance. It was a learning experience, that’s for sure. I was correct in my original assumptions that some of their problems are self-inflicted, but I’d had no idea how difficult the path back was for them.
*Started mainly for domestic violence victims, then added homeless and parolees attempting to return to “regular” life after their problems. By the last year DV was the minority and the program was branching to include more men.