I don’t have enough room in my cupboard to have one cup to a stack. So I stack them all together, usually leave them upright because that’s how I hold them. But it doesn’t bother me either way. My roomie leaves hers upside down and I respect that when I use one of hers, wash it, and put it away.
I much prefer plastic to glass anyway. Stacks better with no risk of breakage. As long as they’re properly dried out before going in the cabinet, stacking is fine.
If people put their glasses standing up then dirt and other stuff can get into the cups. Would you rather just wipe the rim off the glass or have to re-wash the whole thing???
Cabinet with glass doors: right-side-up. Cabinet without glass doors: cups go right-side-up (stability, at least with both Mom’s and Grandma’s models), glasses and mugs go upside-down. Mugs tree: ehr, kind of diagonal.