Well, I hate to post this in the middle of an interesting discussion about a new transgression, but I’ve got to leave my desk for a while, and I wanted to get this into the thread. Please continue as you’re going, then come back to my idea later. I’ll check back.
I’ve been reading this Board since well before my join date. I still lurk far more than I post, but I’ve had spirited discussions (ahem) with gonzo and others. I’ve never been warned (have I?) because I’m pretty good at modulating my behavior, face to face or through a keyboard. Such sometimes comes with age <sigh…>.
There are certainly bans that are an unmitigated benefit to the Boards; some posters bring absolutely nothing of redeeming value. And I don’t object in particular to gonzo’s banning, or Dio’s, or mswas’, or others I could name. I’ve sometimes scrolled past their posts when they particularly annoyed me, and seen them all derail threads I would otherwise enjoy. Banning them was certainly justifiable. But as this thread demonstrates, such bans are perhaps more of a mixed blessing. Something of the special flavor of this place is lost when long time posters, even cranky, contentious, sometimes annoying and occasionally insulting posters, are banned. We lose their jerkish behavior, and that is good. But we lose a bit of that edgy, sharp, even snarky attitude that makes this place worth my reading time. And that isn’t so good.
I’d like to add my voice to the suggestion that suspensions should be more commonly used in such situations. Again, spammer – ZAP!! Troll – ZAP!! But for long time posters who have made positive contributions – notes, warnings, suspension, yes. Moderation is necessary, and here, by and large, it’s quite good. But why is a ban absolutely necessary on the next offense? Why not another suspension? Not, mind you, a stepwise progression, as suggested above. That seems like a pain to keep track of and I don’t see the increments as being useful. But more like this:
As is present practice, you accumulate your notes and warnings to the point of suspension, and WHAM – gone for two months. You come back and – after a day, a week, a month or longer you offend again. WHAM – gone for another two months. This could be almost open ended, as far as I’m concerned, with allowance for Mod discretion. You come back from your suspension (whichever suspension) and the worst thing (from the perspective of the Board) is you immediately offend again, so you immediately get bounced again. If it was a really egregious new offense, then BAN. But maybe the returnee was baited, in which case he’d have another two months to think about avoiding the temptation to reply. Other returnees might go months or longer at a time, making positive contributions, before flying off the handle again. And getting bounced again.
What’s the down side? Some poster, soured by his suspension, comes back and posts something really ugly? He’s immediately banned and his post deleted. Clearly he’s a lost cause. On the up side, posters like the subject of this thread could continue to make some positive contributions in between their outbursts. Even if those positive contributions are simply to contribute to the special ‘flavor’ that is SDMB. If the period between those outbursts grows longer and longer, everybody wins. If that period grows shorter, everybody will see that a ban is really necessary. And again, everybody wins. What about it?