Goodbye, Baby Cat

Mom and I have had an ongoing problem with the cats peeing on the carpeting in the apartment. We’ve theorized as to why, ranging from her allowing neighborhood cats to come in and visit, to the fact that we used to keep the litterbox on the balcony and one of them simply didn’t want to get his delicate little paws wet, to maybe the former tenants had a cat or three that they didn’t clean up after and the smell of urine had gotten into the flooring. We’ve tried everything from enzyme deodorizers to Feliway to pouring black pepper in the areas where we’ve found pee. Nothing worked. Mom has wanted to get rid of the cats for a while, but I wouldn’t have it. Last week, mom was at a pet store getting some cat food and supplies, and the owner told her that whenever you have more than one animal in a house, there are going to be territorial pissing contests. After that, we began to discuss the possibility of giving up one of the cats, which seemed cruel because they have been best buddies since they were kittens

We also suspected that one of the cats, Conan, was the primary culprit. Proved wrong last night while I was at work when mom caught Schrodinger in the act. We started comparing notes. Since we got two indoor litterboxes, we have observed Conan on many occasions going to the litterbox to pee, but we’ve only seen Schro use them to poop. Also, when we clean the litterboxes, Conan immediately “marks” the newly cleaned/changed box, often before we even push it back into its corner. Schrodinger was also the one we caught pooping in the apartment when the weather was rainy- Conan would still go outside. And, well, Schro seems to be a little retarded. Once he got into a habit, there really would be no retraining him. If Conan was contributing to the marking, we would stand a chance of training him not to, once we get the odor out of the carpet- fortunately, there are enzyme cleaners that do this quite well, they’ll even get cat spray out.

Finally, we decided Schrodinger had to go. This morning, I hugged and kissed my Baby Cat goodbye and Mom put him in the cat carrier and took him to a no-kill shelter. The lady there told Mom that she would try to get him adopted out to a new home with a fenced- in yard.

Mom and I are both heartbroken. She was sick all day, and I’ve been snifflling off and on. We were really more worried about Conan than we are about Schrodinger. Schro is a very gregarious cat, and would be happy with anyone who would give him hugs and cuddles. Conan adored him, though, and we’re worried about how he’ll deal with life without his little buddy. So far, he seems to be doing better than we are.

Mom allowed me to console myself by getting a parakeet. I’ve been wanting a bird for a while, so it seemed to be a “fair trade”. Not so much. I’m still sitting here crying as I type this. O’Brien is a sweet little bird, but I strongly suspect that he’s deaf. He doesn’t chirp at all, and doesn’t flinch when he hears a loud noise. I like my new little feathered pal, and so does Conan, but dammit, I miss Schrodinger.

I hope he finds a new home where he’s happy and maybe the only cat in the house so he won’t feel the need to mark his territory.

I’m sorry.

Yeah, that really sucks. :frowning:

Also, your bird might not be deaf. Not that I really know what I’m talking about (I’m not any kind of authority on birds or anything), but our bird, Sonny, didn’t make a peep until we got him a companion, aptly named Cher. Maybe he was just weird.

Thanks you two. Feeling a bit better this morning. I’m just pausing while I’m getting ready for work to update.

O’Brien is still not making any sounds, but he does seem to respond to noises now. This morning while I was doing yoga, I was playing a CD that had some bird sounds on it, and he seemed to be looking around to see where the chirping was coming from.

He may just have been too young to be being sold as a pet. Another thing I’ve noticed is that he sleeps a lot (do baby birds do that?) and he doesn’t show much interest in food unless you brush it against his beak first- then he’ll chow down. I’m thinking some hand-feeding my be in order for at least the next several days, or at least touching his beak with food so he knows to eat.

Conan is faring well, but seems more demanding of attention than usual this morning. Normally around this time of day, he would be frolicking with Schrodinger. Now he only has the humans to play with. I’m making an effort to give him extra attention and cuddles, which is tricky when you’re trying to get ready for work. He’s curious about O’Brien. He periodically goes to the cage and looks at him. Last night I was sitting with the bird on my knee and Conan came over and sniffed him. O’Brien just sat there and let the cat get his nose right up against him.

I’m glad the bird isn’t skittish. Conan wouldn’t intentionally hurt him, but if he gets excited, he could hurt O’Brien trying to play with him, and he tends to get a bit pouncy if the bird flutters.

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Well, I came home from work tonight, and looked up at the balcony, expecting to see Schrodinger draped over the lower railing waiting for me to come home, then I remembered and felt sad.

O’Brien is doing much better. Before I left for work today, I told Mom to hand feed him (O’Brien has become the subject of a Pit thread, BTW). She fed him seed from a spoon, he apparently ate frightening amounts of food and went from a small, inanimate feathered object to a bright, perky, curious and playful little bird.

Conan was initially curious, and still shows signs of curiosity, but now he mostly seems to be afraid of the bird. If O’Brien flutters, fluffs his feathers, moves toward Conan in any way, chirps or in any way engages in any activity that does not involve sitting perfectly still and silent, Conan runs away.

My big ten and a half pound cat is afraid of a half-ounce bird.

What a pussy.

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