Goodbye Spikers (Heartbreaking)

As posted here our dog Spike has been very sick. Last night, that all ended.

We got home yesterday and Spike was panting, yelping and couldn’t stand, walk or anything. I told Jeff that was it, he wouldn’t go through this anymore. He was dying, right there in front of us. I called the vet’s office and they had an opening for us at 6. Our regular vet, Dr. E would be gone by the time we got there, so it would be a different vet. We got him ready, Jeff carried him outside to the car and got in the back with him. We have a hatchback with fold down seats, so there was lots of room to keep him comfortable.

We got there and I went in and they had a room waiting for us. I went back out to the car, Jeff carried Spike in to the Quiet Room. We sat with him for a bit, talking with J, the tech and doing the payment crap. She left the room and Spike had a HUGE seizure. I ran out and got J, the tech and she got Dr. E. She had stayed just so she could be there for us. They came in the room and the seizure was already over. Jeff said it was the worst one he’s had. Dr. E had the tech get him some Valium to calm him down and it helped right away. They usually take the pet to the back, prep them and have the owners come back but they prepped him right there in the quiet room. He didn’t even flinch when the put the needle and catheter in. Such a good boy. They left us alone with him for about 5 minutes and then Dr. E came back, talked to us for a bit and asked if we were ready. I sat on the floor with him, rubbing his head, telling him what a good boy he was and that we loved him. Jeff was on the couch behind me. It took about 30 seconds and he was gone. I started sobbing when I couldn’t feel his pulse on his neck anymore. Dr. E listened to his heart and said he was gone. We sat with him alone for about 10 minutes and another 10 minutes with Dr. E. Jeff asked me if I was ready, and I knew that was his way of telling me he was. I got up…and this is the heartbreaker…Jeff got on his knees, put his head on Spike’s and told him he loved him…and walked out. Nothing like your big, strong fiance on his knees to ground you.

We got home at 6:30 and as soon as we stepped in the door, Jeff took our ceramic Boxer bank and put it in the closet. We sat there, crying and consoling eachother until about 7:30, when Jeff decided that if he didn’t do something, he would go nuts. We made supper, watched a DVD in bed and went to sleep by 10. This weekend we have the task of getting all of Spike’s stuff and putting it in storage.

I feel like a huge weight has been lifted. He is no longer in pain. He has given us much joy and love and has made us both better people for allowing us to be his humans.

Goodbye Spike…you will be missed and loved every day.
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I’m very sorry, Lady Venom.

The loss of a pet is a very deep sadness. I wish I had words that would help take the pain away. I do not. None the less, know that you are in my thoughts.

Sending warm thoughts your way.

My heart goes out to you Lady Venom. I’ve gone through this myself a few times, and it always hurts. I hope you got the e-mail I sent you yesterday, and I hope it helped a little.

Thanks all.

Labdad, I did get the email but not until this morning, thank you so much. It definately did help.

God bless, Lady Venom. Your boy is at peace now.

I’m sorry things went bad so quickly. But I know you did all you could for him.

Take care –

Please try to remember that Spike is no longer suffering. He’d have protected you from pain in whatever way he could, it was up to you to protect him too. You did the right thing, Lady Venom. Spike isn’t hurting anymore. Please know how sorry I am for your loss.

I’ve got tears in my eyes at work for you, Lady Venom. You’ll get through this, and Spike isn’t in pain anymore. You did a good thing for him.

Ava

My condolences as well. I have a good friend who lost a boxer, too. They are such sweet and loving dogs.

((Lady Venom))

I’m sorry… If it’s any consolation, I agree with those who say that you did the selfless & the right thing. Take care.

Goodbye Spike.

Oh, I’m so sorry. I recently lost my lab to cancer and I know it really hurts. Someone sent this poem to me, and though it made me cry, it also brought me comfort. I hope you don’t mind my sharing it with you:

"I will lend you a pup for awhile, " God said,
"For you to love while he lives and mourn when he returns
Maybe twelve or fourteen years, or days–two or three,
But will you, 'till I call him back, take care of him for me?

"He’ll bring his charms to gladden you and should his stay be brief,
You’ll always have his memories as solace for your grief.
I cannot promise he will stay, since all from earth return,
but there are lessons taught below I want this pup to learn.

“I’ve looked the whole world over in search of teachers true
and from the folk that crowd life’s land I have chosen you.
Now will you give him all your love nor think the labor vain,
nor hate me when I come to take my pup back again?”

"I fancied that I heard you say, 'Dear Lord, thy will be done,
For all the joys this dog will bring, the risk of grief I’ll run.
I’ll shelter him with tenderness, I’ll love him while I may,
And for the happiness I’ve known, forever grateful stay.

"‘But should you call him back much sooner than I’ve planned,
I’ll brave the bitter grief that comes, and try to understand.
If, by my love, I’ve managed, your wishes to achieve
In memory of him I loved, to help me while I grieve,
When my faithful bundle departs this world of strife,
You’ll send yet another pup and I’ll love him all his life.’ "

By Joy LaCaille

Oh my, I have tears in my eyes too, reading about you holding the dog. Many of us have been there, some more than once, but I don’t think it ever gets any easier.

I’m sorry for your loss, and at least Spike is no longer in pain. Not a very original thing to say, is it? The bothe of you take care of yourselves, all of us are thinking of you.

Lady Venom, I knew this thread would be tough when I opened it and here I am sniffling and wiping away tears. I had a severely epileptic Golden Retriever, my best friend for 10 years. I’ve been right where you are now - almost to the letter. Lord, I’m sorry!

R.I.P. Spike

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i’m so sorry.

Lady Venom, I don’t know you, but I’m proud of you for having the strength to know when enough was enough, and to comfort and love Spike as you did in his final moments. Letting go of a pet is so very difficult; I’m so glad you were able to save Spike any more suffering and help him go in peace.

I’m sure he was a very good boy - because he was loved and cherished so.

Oh that’s so hard… at least you loved him and were able to give him a dignified end. I’ll be thinking of you.

I’m so sorry. Our Newfoundland died of cancer a couple years ago. Losing a pet is awful. Take comfort knowing that you did all you could, and were strong enough to give him a dignified end.

{{{Lady Venom}}}

My thoughts are with you. I’m so sorry.

Thanks everyone. I just wanted to take a second and thank everyone for their prayers and thoughts. It really helps.

This weekend was a bit rough. We keep looking for him. Breaking the daily routines with him has been difficult. I was home alone all day yesterday and I’ve learned that it’s hard to be alone with my thoughts. I swore I heard him…heard his nails on the hardwood floors.

I miss him.

I had to tell my grandfather what had happened Friday night when he came back from holidays. That was so hard. I’m glad he got to spend a good week with him while we were gone.

Jeff is at the point now where he can talk about him. We reminisced about all the fun and goofy things that made Spike, Spike. He was a very fun dog. He loved to play with his basketball, which is still down in the basement, waiting for him.

Thanks again everyone. It means a lot to us.