I lurked during the original jarbabyj fiasco, and felt it was justified when she was told to take it down a notch. She was getting high on her own acclaim for a minute there. This isn’t a knock on you now, jar, just a way of explaining my position - it seems a poster can’t necessarily agree with your position in this thread without being a lapdog of yours.
That being said, I haven’t enough exposure to DDG to judge whether her Google tactics are annoying. But just from this thread, her general attitude towards newbies is atrocious. DDG, you come off in this thread as some holier-than-thou matriarch who feels it is her absolute duty to shepherd the weak through the valley of darkness. If the SDMB was only about answering question, then there’d be only the GQ forum. You complained about someone calling you out for doing what you do, how that wasn’t right to attack someone for what they are, then looked right down your nose at them for not doing what you do. That’s a bit hypocritical, no?
Give the newbies some credit. Common sense goes a long way around here, and most of the posters who make it past fifty posts have that in spades. Not all of the newbies are helpless little blind children needing your imminent assistance.
Get over yourself.
Maybe this is what jar was trying to say, in a more eloquent manner. Based on some of her more creative swears, you have to give her credit for being level-headed this time out.