In community college, each of my classes were FAR more lively than FSU. The teachers knew most of the students, and welcomed discussions, and students felt they could actually contribute, as there were only 15-25 in a class (rather than 50+).
At my 4 year, to a man/woman, every teacher basically just lectured, and game assignments. They never asked for input, and when a student actually tried to input they were greeted with short answers that assure that other students were less likely to try that again thank you very much.
As to the folk that are adding the social aspects of a 4 year college as part of the appeal, I have to ask: What prevents you from having similar experiences outside of that 4 year college? Of the many people in my age group I know that attended a 4 year from day one, none of them built any lasting experiences, and spend a great deal of social time trying to recreate fleeting situations that happened in college, or vainly attempting to keep up the friendships from those days (while constantly complaining about said friendships). Those of us who did not have said college experience are happily going through life building relationships and experiences as we go.
I am not saying this is universal. I am merely saying that I hear this a great deal from people (that they wouldn’t trade their college experience) and yet, none of them seem to have any healthy relationships. So, it could be said that the college experience isn’t for everyone. And for 80K, couldn’t you have bought some friends or taken a long road trip where you have great expeiences, saw the world, and made some interesting friends along the way. If you need 80K to build relationships of have experiences, I feel you may have some problems.