The number of molecules hitting the boat from even 1 cm of water will be the same as from an indefinitely large expanse. It sounds like it’s more the impact of waves in the water that would be different. This effect would be similar to that of the Casimir Effect. In the image at the top, imagine the left plate is the dock, and the right plate is the boat.
It’s not just space that is curved, it’s spacetime. Everything is “moving” through time, so there’s no issue of being still.
Here’s a different analogy that may help. Consider a typical lampshade, conical and larger at the bottom than the top. Imagine time being the direction around the shade, and space being the direction along the shade. if you start at a point near the top of the shade, moving horizontally, that corresponds to being stationary in space with time passing. As you move forward in “time” in a straight line, your path will “curve” down, analogous to a gravitational attraction from the bottom of the shade. This is a purely geometrical “attraction”, no external gravity needed.