Maybe he was fleeing, and maybe he wasn’t. Wasn’t that part of the trial process, to determine that, based on the evidence?
I’m in the small minority of people who have been personally threatened with a gun (on three occasions), and no situation is as clear-cut as news bites and Dopers that read them like to put it. Crimes are often agitated, violent, fast-moving, and confusing right from the start - let me relate my third time threatened in alternate words - and I’m going to run them on for effect.
“Suddenly your frame of reference of just going home and going inside is broken by a large man looming over you with a handgun pointed at you. He starts yelling at you to give him this and give him that and telling you he’s going to kill you if you don’t and you’re fumbling and can’t get your watch off and your rings are stuck and he’s getting more and more agitated and he walks away to look for something and comes back and makes more demands and he hears a car coming and runs around the car to duck and hide and then comes back and finally he yells and sneers at you and runs away, THEN drives past in his car pointing the gun out his passenger-side window at you and threatening you and all the while you think this is it…”
You see, if I try to narrate how my third event, second holdup occurred, it’s fast-moving and there were at least 2 times I thought he was going to go and leave me alone, then he came back and made more demands.
As soon as he left the third time, I was fairly sure if he came back who knows what he might do, as he didn’t get much from me and was getting very angry. It’s all nice and neat to sit here on the SDMB and cast a person who dares to try to defend themselves as a crazed gun-owner, but that’s a pretty stupid thing to do that speaks from ignorance and prejudice. In my case, I leaned over and flipped open my glove box to get my 9mm, because I didn’t know what would happen if he came back a third time, and I figured this was it.
Only to discover I’d taken it out to clean it after a trip to the range. So instead I grabbed a piece of rebar I kept under my front seat, but then dropped it, realizing that unlike on TV, small woman with rebar versus large male with gun was not a balanced equation.
The best part of it all? The cop that dressed me down when I gave my account, telling me that if I had even shot in the air as a warning shot, he would have arrested me for “public discharge of a firearm”, and that I should “leave the self defense to the professionals”. Mercifully, I was not patted on the head like a good girl and sent on my way. :rolleyes: I asked him very angrily where he and the other so-called “professionals” were when I was sexually assaulted years back, and he said basically “can’t be everywhere”.
So one can then say “well, if the situation really is so dramatic and fast-moving and confusing as you say, does it make sense to have two people armed and dangerous?”, to which my response is “at what point does one give up all hope of taking charge of their life, and acting to defend themselves, rather than rely on the smiling policeman to be there for them”? Why is there this constant desire of people to resign the defense of their own lives to the two entities we have the least incentive to trust - the State, and the criminal? (and I don’t mean that there is distrust of the intentions of the State, but the ability of the State to be there and always able to respond). Do we resign ourselves to relying that “someone else will do it for us”, or instead on the goodwill and human decency of the scum pointing the gun at us, and just hope that today is the day you won’t get raped by a diseased piece of scum, or taken somewhere, killed, stuffed in a trash bag, and dumped in a tip?
In the case this thread is about, the person may very well have been at-fault. The criminal may have been pathetic, may have been non-violent acting, may have been clearly and unambiguously fleeing the scene. In that case, I don’t think many can justify shooting them (although shooting harmlessly in the air to make sure they know you’re armed and to discourage their return would be justified). But when you have a gun stuck in your face, or someone you love is threatened, a person should be excused for making the wrong decision.
And of course, that’s what the trial is for - but trials can be punishment enough, in that they can easily bankrupt a person and ruin their lives as well. I’ve seen it happen. There has to be some point where Society says this: “it was not the tow truck driver who created the situation - it was the criminal. Let us never forget that fact and keep it from being brushed aside. We acknowledge that criminals reap what they sow.”
And as a final point - replica gun makes no difference. I’m fairly familiar with firearms, and I can’t tell a replica from a real gun until I handle it. If you believe it’s a gun, and the criminal uses it as a gun, then it’s a gun.