There is already a thread discussing the possible changes to the rules of the Pit. Since all of the potential changes are being discussed simultaneously, I want to focus on the issue of “Hate speech”.
I’ve seen hate expressed for all of the following on these boards:
Gays
White Police officers
Jews
Child Molestors
Baptists
Abortion Doctors
etc…
Hate exists. When a person expresses their hatred here, it might be applauded or attacked, depending on the target of the hatred and of course, the audience. Should the admission of hating a group of people or even an individual be allowed on these boards? If I say “I hate the bastard who killed the little 5 year old girl”, nobody would probably have any issue with that. If I said “I hate any Christian that thinks that gays shouldn’t be allowed to adopt”, I would possibly get both flamed and congratulated. Should a line be drawn and if so, where?
If someone has not violated the “Don’t be a jerk” rule and in their mind, legitimately hates a person or group of people, I appreciate the honesty. I like knowing how a person really feels. As a gay male, there are too many people in this world that are nice to my face but later on will ridicule me or make jokes or express their hatred for me. I think it is always better to know how someone feels up front, and if you disagree, be vocal about it. Every once in a while, somebody learns something in the process and maybe even a little ignorance is fought. I might be very pro-police, for example, thinking they are the saviours of society. Then, a black woman might explain that her husband is pulled over three times a week because he fits a profile by driving a nice car. Maybe her sister was shot while reaching for her ID. I might not think the hatred is valid, but at least I can try to understand the reasoning. That’s the important part, I think. Trying to understand the reasons why people hate.
So…
- Are you in favor of banning expressions of hatred. If so, why?
- Where should the line be drawn as to what is allowed and what isn’t?
- If someone hates another person. Would you rather you know about it or wish that they keep it a secret?
Mods, Lynn asked me to mention that she gave me the go ahead to put this thread here.