Have you ever wanted to be of a different sexuality

Exactly. I mean, sometimes it sounds like, hmmm, it would be kinda fun to be bi and swing both ways. It would be kind of exciting, I guess, just for the sake of it being different.

But when I actually think about being with another girl, quite frankly, it bores me. And I have a hard time imagining it-it doesn’t come naturally to me.

Actually, it doesn’t, because for every person you’d find who’d be willing to date someone who’s bisexual, you’d lose at least two or three who will only date someone who’s straight.

I know, men always say they’re turned on by the idea of a bisexual woman. However, the reality of a woman who’s into other women, too, and not as a sexual aid for her boyfriend, often makes them turn tail and run. And I don’t even want to start thinking about the attitude of most lesbians I’ve met towards bisexuality. It just depresses me.

Um…that said, no, I wouldn’t want to change my sexuality. It’s part of who I am, and I can’t really imagine wanting to eliminate that part of my psyche for the sake of novelty.

I used to wish I were either gay or straight. Being bi was too confusing. I spent most of my early twenties unable to decide if I was unsuccesful with women because I was really gay, or if I was only having gay fantasies because I was so desperate from always being unsuccesful with women.

Then I stopped caring, and things improved all around.

I’d love to be gay for certain celebrities. Angelina Jolie… mmmmmmm. :wink:
Having said that, I’m pretty comfortable being straight. Props to all gay, bi, and straight people out there!