Okay, first off, Capital One and MBNA are evil. They have higher fees, higher interest rates, and more catches for the consumer, than other organisations do. I do not recommend going with them.
Fortunately, when I started out, they weren’t around in Canada.
My own credit-card story, or, what it’s like to Do Everything Wrong.
Seven years ago, I was drowning in credit-card debt. I had bought a camcorder and gone to Europe, and when I got back, I could never climb out of the payment hole each month before the next bills came in. More and more of my pay went straight to the credit-card bill, and I had none left for other things, like food. I started to live off the card. Interest on the card compounded and recompounded.
Eventually the stress got to me and I broke down. My work suffered and I was in danger of losing my job (fortunately, I kept it together enough that I didn’t, even though I had some bad reviews).
I went to a trustee and filed a “consumer proposal”, which in Ontario is one step short of a bankruptcy. It is a legal agreement to pay off a portion of the debt in return for forgiveness of the rest.
The trustee took a listing of my assets. He took my card and destroyed it. I was paying off $500 per month (or per pay, I can’t remember). I was also paying high counselling bills to deal with the psychological aftermath.
It was enough that I had to struggle during the month. For five years, I lived raggedly. I basically had one pair of pants, which I would replace when it wore out. I had no credit card, so I was unable to rent a car (or borrow to buy one, not that I had the money for those payments anyways). I went on no long trips. I missed out on the convenience of online ordering and payment–for half of the appeal of the credit-card system is being able to buy things online. I had dialup internet access and a ramshackle home-built computer instead of high-speed internet access and a new computer.
During the runup to my credit implosion, and afterwards, I didn’t date. My self-esteem was low enough beforehand, with all the stress and worry and all, that I couldn’t believe that I’d have a chance. (I certainly wasn’t thinking straight.) And around then, I did miss a chance, though I didn’t find out until long afterwards.
Afterwards, I actually felt better, because I was dealing with the problem instead of hiding from it, but I still didn’t think I had a chance, mostly because I was broke and didn’t have decent clothes and couldn’t afford to go to ‘nice’ (expensive) places. This effectively removed me from the dating pool for eight years.
Now, I am debt-free. I paid off the consumer proposal almost two years ago. I have a MasterCard, which is not a credit card; it’s a prepaid card from MoneyMart, which I load with money when I want to buy something online.
But I still cannot borrow at anything like “normal” rates. The only actual credit card I am able to get is a “secured” credit card, in which you provide a lump sum of money equal to the limit on the card. I am unable to get a standard overdraft, even. Payday lenders, however, will lend to me happily. (Payday lenders are another thread, however. Let’s just say that they’re probably the most expensive form of borrowing in the universe.)
And I still can’t rent a car.
My cureent challenge is to build savings. Then, I can be my own bank, and not have to worry about scraping by or emergencies or borrowing to meet that unexpected expense two days before payday.
I wish I’d known all this when the Bank of Montreal offered me that Mastercard when I was in college. To be fair, the problems didn’t start until much later, long after I’d paid off my student loans, even.
So, to sum up…
Listen to what the others have said upthread, and pay the card off every month!