Note to mods: I wasn’t sure if this should go in GQ or IMHO or MPSIMS. Please move where it belongs.
I need the advice of experienced fresh water fish dopers.
Here’s the story…
When we moved into this house almost two years ago, the prior occupants hadn’t removed all of their stuff out. One of the things they never did take with them is a small desktop aquarium. It consists of a round tank (abt. 2 gallons), lid, gravel, filter and a gourami. No heater (not even a light) or a filter.
It’s been stuck away in a corner and basically ignored except Rico has been feeding Gourami. I had totally forgotten about the tank until he mentioned it a few months ago. :eek:
I was so overwhelmed with moving back to California and getting married…and moving into the house we’d rented which was supposed to be empty when we arrived here with all my stuff, but really all that was gone were the people. My stuff stayed packed in the truck for 2 weeks before WE moved some of their stuff out to the driveway so we could at least get my stuff out of the truck and stacked into one room. :mad:
Anyway, with everything going on, I must have forgotten about the poor fish. :smack: By the time Rico said he couldn’t believe our Gourami was still alive, the poor thing hadn’t had a water change in at least 1 1/2 years or any maintenance besides being fed. I didn’t want to send Gourami into shock at his ripe old age and really didn’t expect him to live much longer so I left the tank alone.
::dodging:: Please don’t hurt me. I’ve never mistreated a fish before and promise never to allow a fish to live in a tank in this condition again!
About 2 weeks ago Gourami finally started to slow down and look listless. For the past week he’s been laying on his side but still swims up to eat.
I feel so bad for gourami when I look at him but I don’t want to kill him if he’s not suffering. I don’t know enough about fish to know what the best thing is.
When Ric told me gourami was still alive, he also told me the he “doesn’t do fish” so when our gourami does go, I’ll have to be the one to take care of the “final arrangements”. With that in mind, when I asked him for his opinion about what to do, he suggested asking y’all.
Is it better to flush now or wait?