I never met my grandfather as he died in 1975 and he has always been a source of interest to me. He was a flawed man, but one who my mother always idealized and put on a pedestal and so “knowing” him in any way would be cool. Also, I had a lack of positive male models growing up so yeah.
I came into possession of his earthly possessions a few years ago. As politics is a big thing to me I’ve often wondered where he would stand. Perhaps his possessions and some background information would help older members here help me?:
He:
-Was born (and spent his life in) in Brooklyn, NY in 1920, the son of upper middle class Italian immigrants. His father was a very hard worker who became very well off through sheer hard work.
-Served in the US Military between 1939 and 1946, reaching the rank of Staff Sgt and saw combat. He was shot in the leg and spent over a year in the Hospital
-After the war, was a blue collar worker who seemed to work odd jobs until the mid 1950s. His dominant career after that was as a mail carrier for the USPS and security guard for the Pinkertons and other agencies. He also worked as Taxi Driver (early 1950s) and Armed Chauffeur (Late 1950s) on the side.
-He seemed to adore the YMCA. He kept a pamphlet entitled “Why America Fights”, written by Sherwood Eddy, a Catholic missionary of sorts and published by the YMCA in 1942. This little book gave moral and Christian justification for our part in World War II and it touches upon issues of what would now be called social justice with regards to race. He kept this book for over 30 years, and it is still in almost new condition.
-Was a compulsive gambler who took to illegalities to try to cover his debts.
-He was a member of the VFW and American Legion as of 1958.
-He donated blood to the Red Cross in 1962 and 1967.
-He wasn’t fond of my aunt’s desire to become a Nun, and only allowed her to become so (she needed written parental permission) after he made a deal with her in which she would work and date boys for a year (Prior to this, love letters between her and a female had been found; she is a lesbian).
-He refused to sign off on my other aunt’s desire to join the Women’s Army Corps around 1969, stating to her that they “didn’t respect” women there. I’m paraphrasing, but basically he wouldn’t allow her to go into the military because women were mistreated.
-He seemed to believe in God, having a saying that went something like, “When the Man Upstairs calls you, you could have the world’s best doctors around you but when it’s your time to go it’s your time to go” and later in life wore a Christhead pendant. My mother (who was 21 when he died) doesn’t recall him being a Churchgoer though.
-He seemed to adapt in the early 1970s to several elements of the Counter-Culture. All his life prior to then, he had close clipped hair, often shaved close on the sides, and was cleanshaven. In the 1970s, he grew his hair in fuller (not long, just thicker) and wore middle ear length sideburns and a mustache. He retained both from at least 1972 until his death three years later. He is pictured in 1972 wearing a wide collared pink button down shirt and slightly flared slacks where prior he had worn mostly milder, more conservative clothing.
I know this isn’t a lot to go on, but this is all I have. Am curious if he would’ve been a Democrat or a Republican back then.