Heterosexual couples that break gender stereotypes?(With leeway) Examples? Lectures?

Gone with the Wind–Scarlett is a tough business owner who is a lousely mother and hates childbearing, while Rhett, for all his bluster, is a fashion expert and mothers Scarlett’s children better than she does. Ashley is a milquetoast, which Melanie is the strength of the family.

A Tree Grows in Brooklyn–Katie supports that family as a janitor while Johnny drinks his life away.