EddyTeddyFreddy, I think part of your problem with *Alien *was that it was a product of its time, and it *was *groundbreaking and amazing (hence the hype) to the degree that every movie thereafter that in some way shared genre elements with it borrowed from it, so that by the time you saw it, you’d already seen its major elements done to death, and usually with poorer quality, in other movies.
To give you an idea why this was special at the time it came out:
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[li]Science fiction probably meant Star Trek to most people - shiny, clean spaceships filled with forward-thinking humanists exploring in the name of peace and knowledge. So the set design was shocking and interesting. The run-down factory appearance and the “space truckers” attitude made people sit up and take notice, and also I’m sure made it feel more real.[/li][li]Same kind of thing goes for the monster design. People were used to humanoid aliens in gaudy polyester, or laughably stiff rubber-headed bug-eyed monsters. H.R. Giger reached into a sick, twisted place with his design for the alien, and even if the movie itself bored you, take a look at some images of that puppy, and tell me that wouldn’t scare the shit out of you in a dark alley.[/li][li]The design also lent the movie its atmosphere. This is not just a monster movie. It’s about claustrophobia. The crew is completely unprepared to fight back, and totally incapable of running away. I think that is the real source of dread and horror, not that the monster was really scary, and had good “Boo!” moments.[/li][li]Personally, I think this movie was terrifying to a lot of people - especially men - because of the rape themes. A male crewman is attacked by a creature that frankly looks like it has a vulva for a “face,” with a penile organ which violently punches through his face mask and down his throat. For some time it has complete control over his body, during which time it “impregnates” him, and once the offspring has matured, it bursts forth from his body in a graphically bloody and painful manner. [/ul] [/li]
If you’re interested in more detail on the historical background and why the movie was groundbreaking, check out The Alien Saga . (I believe I saw it on TV when they showed an *Alien *marathon.) You get a taste of the revolutionary design and why people went so crazy over it, without having to sit through the movie.
I also surmise you disliked this because you were expecting something more like the sequel, *Aliens *- action, scary monsters chasing people, and so on - when, as I said, the horror of this movie is much more about atmosphere - the dinginess of the ship, and later the number of hidey holes it has; the look of the alien planet and the crashed ship; the building realization that they are totally screwed, with no way out; and the paranoia as it becomes clear that they’ve been sold out. It’s a slow burn, and not everyone’s cup of tea.
Oh, and I don’t think you’re supposed to like or sympathize with many of the characters. Ripley, yes. Dallas, possibly. Everyone else - they’re not meant to be sympathetic, but more to exemplify some human failings, and of course to serve as cannon fodder.
I don’t argue with you that you didn’t find it to your taste, and I don’t think you have to see a whole movie to decide you don’t like it. But as **Darkhold **said, some of the questions you raise as problems with the movie are in fact explained and used to good effect in the later section of the film.
Now, to add my nomination: The English Patient. I’d heard SOOOO much hype, but it wasn’t my husband’s type of thing at all, so I was really jazzed when it happened to be on TV while he was out of town. After it ended, I just stared at the TV, wondering if I’d watched the same movie as everyone who was lauding it to the skies. Basically, stupid, obnoxious people do stupid, obnoxious things, the leads have an affair for no discernible reason (YMMV, but I could sense no sexual chemistry at all), and it ends “tragically” (i.e., it would have been tragic if I’d cared at all about any of the characters).