This thread is great inspiration for my planned project today: filing and cleaning up papers, in an attempt to see the floor of our study again.
I think maybe having huge piles of junk is surprisingly common because there are many causes. In my case (not that I’m any comparison to these people), I have a little “I might need that,” quite a bit more “ooh, shiny - must buy!” and a whole lot of “these insurance documents came in the mail, I need to review and store them, but I don’t have time now.” And of course, each time, I have less ability to deal with the filing and stuff because the pile of unfiled things has grown, and that has to be dealt with before I can really put something away. Actually, most of the clutter in my house results from things not having a handy home.
And then of course there are the people who devote all their time to other things and leave no time for routine cleaning, people who suffered real deprivation and can’t adapt to an environment of plenty, and the fact that it’s evidently easy to become actually delusional about the state of things (I’ve read animal hoarders are this way).
Now, I’ve got a friend whose house is pretty nightmarish. There are two couches in her living room, and yet only one spot to sit in, which she shifts around for guests by moving the piles of laundry, toys, and papers. There are piles of clothes and stuff everywhere, to the point that you do often have to edge around things. And yet, she shifts stuff around and keeps the areas relatively clean, just cluttered as hell, and she is constantly getting rid of stuff! I don’t understand, unless she’s just lying, how she can drop so much stuff at consignment, Goodwill, and other charities, and still have so much.
Though, come to think of it, she is a pathological bargain shopper. Like if she doesn’t buy it retail, it doesn’t cost anything, and should be gotten to have on hand for the future. She has given me bins and bins of outgrown baby clothes that are half filled with items that still have the tags on them.
I hope at least some of the people on the show get help. I used to be much more of a hoarder, and having reformed, I can attest to the pleasure of being utterly brutal in getting rid of things. Haven’t used it in a year? Chuck it. Or drop it at Goodwill if it’s too painful to “waste” it. Feels good!
I wonder if this would work for recalcitrant spouses and such - propose to move pretty much everything you own to a storage unit, excepting items in daily use. No lists may be made of items in there. If you remember an item and have an immediate use for it, the non-hoarder will fetch it for you. Anything you don’t even remember exists after 12 mos gets trashed, again, without you ever seeing it again.