We’ve been to Turkey several times in the past four years and have enjoyed each visit tremendously.
We’re not “package tour persons”. Too little freedom and too much pressure. As a matter of fact, the first time we went, we got there in the middle of the night with just our plane tickets and the hotel voucher. We didn’t speak a single word of Turkish. We got a taxi, settled on what was a very reasonable price for a 30km ride and were on our way.
In our later travels, we’ve always used travel agencies, however. Not because we’d had a bad experience the first time (far from it) but because it was just more convenient. But no package tour or “checklist” vacation for us. Just the plane tickets, transfer and hotel reservation.
Our plan has always been more or less the same: enjoy the hotel facilities but include a couple of sightseeing trips. Don’t book these through the hotel, just walk out and you’ll find several boutiques offering the same programs for a much lower price. Or even better if you’re feeling a bit more adventurous, pick up a dolmuş: they’re everywhere, fun and cheap.
On the whole: it’s a wonderful country and there’s something for everyone: spectacular landscapes, fascinating historical places (including lots of Greek ruins), vibrant nightlife, lots of trendy stuff and the weather is fabulous, too. It’s modern, very clean and safe*. Healthcare was excellent (we had to see a doctor once for our youngest daughter). However, bear in mind that this may only apply to the more touristy parts.
My advice would be do this:
However, make sure that you stay at a very good hotel (tripadvisor is your friend). They’re absolutely great. I probably wouldn’t go to a three-star place or lower.
In order to avoid the “what do we do?” problem, just read about the region you want to visit beforehand and plan accordingly. I’ve never been to Cappadocia but I doubt there’s a shortage of things to see.
*I must admit that we’ve decided to go somewhere else this time. Last year, we arrived a week after the failed coup and we spent those 7 days wondering whether we should go. We finally said “Let’s do it” and, amazingly, didn’t see anything that might have suggested that major political turmoil had just happened. Everything was fine and safe. But this year, we’ve decided to cut on our travel expenses and, well, there are cheaper options in Europe plus my wife isn’t feeling too confident about safety anymore (much to her chagrin: she loves the country).