You don’t need that kind of structure to make a house last, if your criterion is 100 years. There are lots of wood frame houses around that have been standing for 200 or more years.
Your best defense against having your house torn down is to make it really, really nice. Mansions tend to become historical buildings, and therefore are maintained and protected properly. You can build the world’s strongest cement structure, but if it happens to be in a place where someone wants to build something else, they’ll just tear it down. So either build it in the boonies, or if you build it in a desirable area make it too nice to demolish, even 100 years from now.
Have a look at the contruction techniques used in extreme areas. Here in Edmonton where we get extremes of hot and cold, new houses are being built with 2 X 6 construction, engineered trusses for flooring, 1/2" plywood sub-floors, etc. Houses like that will almost certainly last 100 years. There are a lot of houses in Edmonton that date back to the turn of the century and are structurally sound today. A friend of mine lives in a house build in 1917, and it doesn’t creak, the doors all swing properly (no sagging or leaning in the structure), etc. It’s just a frame building with a basement foundation.
If you’re really stuck on a huge cement house for other reasons (energy efficiency comes to mind), then you might want to check out the ‘earthships’. These houses are typically built into the side of a hill, and the exposed walls are made by taking car tires, filling them with compressed sand, then pouring concrete around the outside to make a solid, smooth wall. These are about 4’ thick, yet they only use a fraction of the concrete.
I don’t have a link for you, but if you type in ‘Earthship’ in a good search engine I’m sure you’ll find lots of links.
Or, you can buy a used missile silo and move in. The government is selling a few of those off, and at least one couple has converted one into a pretty nice underground residence.
None of these options will be cheap, though. As someone else said, the minute you move away from standard, volume building practices the costs start to mount rapidly. Labor is extremely expensive these days. Even these Earthships which use surplus materials for construction wind up costing hundreds of thousands of dollars.