I pray that the great Flabob will show me the light, the way, and the restroom.
Note that I didn’t suggest that you don’t need to be effectively socialized around here; I merely suggested that you might be able to become socialized even if left to your own devices. I’m sure I am not alone in seeing a promising Doper in you. But if perchance you fail of that promise, you will be neither the first nor the most significant to do so. And none of us will attribute it to nonfeasance on the part of the great Flabob.
Good luck to you.