I had an annoying time at work today because I gave a draft version of a technical presentation I have to give next week to a customer, and I did not do a good job. In fact, I generally do a worse job at presentations than most of the other people I work with, and I worry that it’s seriously starting to mess with my career, that I don’t get given as much responsibility because I can’t be trusted to do a good job communicating to the customers.
In particular, I can’t go in cold, without having practiced giving my slides multiple times, and talk about them. Of course this is exacerbated when I’m not very familiar with the material, but it happens even when I am familiar with it. It happens even when it’s about stuff I’ve worked on and thought about for years! Unlike pretty much all the other technically-oriented people I know, I just cannot seem to explain technical material in a nice logical progression without having practiced exactly what I’m going to say and what words I’m going to use. I tend to start in the middle, leave out important points, forget to put in important background information, and so on. This happens even informally – my husband points out a lot that when I’m telling him something I routinely start in the middle. (He explains things very well, in an extremely logical and elegant fashion, whether it’s on the Dope or at work or telling me about how the plumbing in our house works. I’m really jealous.) When people ask me stuff like, “What are you working on these days?” it’s really hard for me to put together two sentences that describe it coherently. Even this post required several drafts so that I wasn’t telling it in a cockeyed incoherent fashion (or at least, if you think this is incoherent, you should have seen what I started with).
Another, related problem I have, that plays into this as well, is that I tend to always overestimate how much the audience knows, when really I should underestimate and trust that the audience will tell me if I’m boring them. That’s something that is at least fixable in theory, although in practice it’s harder because I don’t always know/realize what the audience doesn’t know.
Is there a way to get better at this? Obviously one thing is that I apparently need to start practicing even for the draft versions (which is sometimes feasible, although not always, because sometimes there’s a time crunch and I don’t have time to practice before giving the draft). My husband has also valiantly volunteered to be the guinea pig for having me practice explaining things and/or telling stories in logical progression. (He obviously loves me very much, as I suspect this will be a little painful for him.) I guess practice must help? More than ten years of being asked what I’ve been working on at school/work doesn’t seem to have made that any easier for me, so I’m a little skeptical, but I suppose it can’t hurt. Any other tips? Does anyone else have this problem?