This is a constant battle for me! I love my stuff, I love to collect, I love keeping things with a family history, and just recently, Mr. Del’s family started giving us stuff from their family as well.
The downside here is that we live in a small-ish NYC apartment. Granted, we’re in Brooklyn so we have a little more space, but not much.
A few things that I have found that work well for me …
Rotate knick-knacks (like Glory’s step-mom). When I put out the Christmas decorations, everything else that’s around gets packed up. After the holidays, I have another couple boxes for “spring” knick-knacks. Obviously, they are not all seasonal things, but they get rotated just as if they were.
I really took a look at our books. Despite the fact that we have several large, floor-to-ceiling bookcases, the books were still overflowing. I became slightly more ruthless about giving them away (I still can’t throw a book out). I also packed up the books that we don’t really need for instant reference – all the grotty science fiction paperbacks (that I love, don’t get me wrong) are boxed up and stored. Also mystery series books. Textbooks from college. If we simply need to read any of these, we can still get our hands on them, but at least they are off the shelves.
Displaying things up high – the knicks-knacks and other display items tend to creep onto the surfaces that I need to be functional, like the coffee table, desk, dining table, etc. I pushed everything UP as much as possible, adding some display shelves (be thoughtful if you buy these, many of the shelves on the market are very narrow, which can make displaying larger items difficult) and a plate rail in the kitchen. This does not really help with cleaning/dusting them, but it gets them out of functional space.
Photos in frames go on the wall, we have one hallway where the entire wall is used to display photos of all sizes in all sorts of frames. They were taking up too much room on the bureau, desk, etc. I also rotate the photos in the frames (not often, I’m not a freakish Martha Stewart clone, just when the mood strikes me).
flodnak, thanks for the link to that site!