It’s more about analytical reading ability than anything else. I figured I’d let a proper physicist answer your questions. If there’s none forthcoming, though…
In a certain way, yes. They’re called particles because they have particle-like aspects, just like some quantum phenomena are called “waves” because they have wavelike aspects. As to what they are, the jury’s essentially still out, but “little globs on energy” is as good a way to think about them as any other.
Again, this – while not necessarily the most accurate to the cutting-edge formulas – is as good a loose idea as any other. The idea that energy can be nonlocalized (as in a wave) or localized (as in a particle) depending on how you look at it really goes to the heart of the wave/particle duality.
This is actually the line of reasoning that led to the ether hypothesis, which was later disproved. The stunning fact is that light doesn’t need a medium to wave. The electromagnetic potential field is an assignment of a “cotangent vector” (loosely, a collection of four numbers with certain transformation properties as the coordinate system of the observer changes) to each point of spacetime. This satisfies a differential equation very similar to that of waves in a physical medium. In particular, a local disturbance propagates at a certain rate, the speed of light.
Don’t beat yourself up so much. Asking questions, even if they’re based on false premises (say, “what about a Many-Worlds Interpretation of QM where different worlds interact?”), is the best way of learning something. Conversely, the best way of teaching (and in fact being sure that you know it in the first place) is to answer such questions, and to explain the answers (say, why the premises are false rather than just asserting their falseness).
There’s a certain sense in which “empty space” is still something under current models, but it’s definitely not dark matter or dark energy. The vacuum is sort of a background on which everything else happens (there are some theories where the vacuum itself is an epiphenomenon: like the force keeping you from falling through the floor is an epiphenomenon of the electromagnetic interactions between the floor and the soles of your shoes). Dark matter and energy are two different “things” that can go on in the vacuum.