It’s a primacy effect.
Donahue was the main man on the scene before Oprah came on. Now, I love me some Donahue–even as a kid I loved watching his show, with all his running-up-the-stairs-with-the-mic thing. But a black woman? A black overweight woman? A black overweight woman with a funny name? A black overweight woman with a funny name doing some crazy-ass show topics (for younger and unintiated Dopers, her first seasons were of the transexual-Martians-with-herpes variety). That was formula for TV gold in the mid-1980s!
She seems old hat now that we’ve had Ricki Lake, Sally Jesse, that other white lady I can’t remember with the crooked smile, Tyra, et al. But really, she was the first in the act. Donahue was great, but he didn’t connect to the viewership like Oprah did. Because he wasn’t “one of them.” He was just another white guy with his own show. Been there, done that, even if it was a little different.
I remember watching Oprah when she was a local Chicago thing, during summer visits with my grandmother. So started off small-time and before I knew it, we were watching her down in Atlanta. Even as an eight-year-old, I was amazed by that.
I’m not a huge fan of Oprah’s show because it was a little “woo woo”, and I didn’t like how it had become an infomercial for her favorite thing of the month (though I do like Suze Orman). But no one can say Oprah isn’t a hardworking and smart businesswoman and entertainer. I know she was embarrassed by “Beloved” and I thought she probably should have cast another person for the starring role, but I thought it was a pretty decent film for very intense source material. I also enjoyed the other Oprah productions, like “Their Eyes Were Watching God” and “The Wedding”. She deserves props for her book club, too. I consider myself a fairly independent reader, but many of the books on her list WERE good, and I have to admit that after awhile, seeing that seal on a book’s cover would influence my decision to check it out. A lot of women who weren’t reading, or weren’t reading good stuff at least, were suddenly introduced to stuff they would have never read if it hadn’t been for Oprah. So, yeah, her personality may grate, but she deserves major props for that IMHO.
I think a lot of women kind of grew up on Oprah. I mean, I’m in my early 30s and when I think of the 80s homelife, all the iterations of the theme song to the Oprah Winfrey Show are in the soundtrack. In my memories, my mother would be watching the show on the little black-and-white set while she’d be cooking dinner (always spaghetti, it seems to me), and I’d be doing my homework on the kitchen table. Oprah was a constant thing from 1985 to present, and I imagine for many people, watching her show was just an engrained habit. Like watching the David Letterman Show is for my father.
I enjoyed her in role in “The Color Purple.” Both Whoopie and Oprah were great in that movie, and both showed themselves to be more than the one-dimensional figures that Hollywood had carved out for them (and black women, in general) previously.
I understand why people don’t like Oprah and like I said, I don’t even like her show. But I don’t understand the hate she seems to get. Sometimes it just seems over-the-top. Unneccesary hateration. Yeah, I do think she’s a bit narcissicistic, but she balances it out with her philanthropy. Compared to most people on TV, I can’t say she’s the worse person in the world.