I get what you guys were saying. And admittedly I’ve never been to Japan so I don’t know first-hand what Japanese people think about animation. But it just seems like there’s too much anime with adult (or at least non-child-focused) themes and content for it to be strictly some weird fringe thing. If only a small, disreputable segment of people over the age of 12 watch anime, then why does adult-oriented anime keep getting made? Do they make it just for the otaku in the States?
For the record, I think anime fans in the States are a bad barometer for what’s actually popular in Japan. U.S. anime fans will embrace anything and everything from Japan but it’s more of subculture thing and has no basis in people watching shows aimed at their specific age groups. So you’ll get groups of college kids getting together to watch Pokemon or Naruto or other “kiddie” fare, even though they’re supposed to be well beyond that stuff age-wise. OTOH you have young people like my niece (who is also 14) who will play Pokemon video games but doesn’t watch the cartoon and hasn’t in years.
Now, when I say “adult-oriented anime”, I don’t mean stuff like Sailor Moon and Dragonball and whatnot. I recognize that shows like that have mostly kiddie appeal. But who watches grittier shows like Cowboy Bebop? What about Spice and Wolf, which features a shape-shifting character but has a lot of quiet, deliberately-paced political intrigue? I hesitate to think that it was aimed at young audiences; I do know that it was based on a popular novel/manga series, though. Then you have a whole slew of anime films that have adult content - Princess Mononoke has decapitation, dismemberment, lepers, (former) prostitutes, flesh-eating demon curses, and tons of other fun things, and it became the top-grossing film in Japan at the time. And one of my favorite Japanese film anecdotes is about how My Neighbor Totoro (a through-and-through family/kids film) was financed in large part due to a deal whereby the animated adaptation of Grave of the Fireflies (an extremely somber and serious war film) was financed as well - it was the war movie that got the kids movie the funding, essentially.
Again, I don’t really believe that everyone in Japan likes every type of anime. Obviously, there’s a whole lot made explicitly for kids (it seems there are many anime adaptations of video games as well). But there’s also a whole lot that has more adult appeal - even if it’s not considered universally acceptable to watch it, it’s still being made. Compared to what U.S. studios produce, there seems to be more mature animation coming out of Japan than the U.S., no matter who’s watching it. And, like I said before, there seem to be whole genres that American animators won’t even touch (drama, especially).