How do I choose a cruise for my parents?

I am planning a gift for my parent’s 60th birthdays and my mother made hints that a cruise to Alaska would be a perfect gift. Not being one to brush off good advice I have decided to look into it, but I have no idea where to start.

I know that some cruise lines cater to a specific demographic. My parents are going to be 60. My mother is very active, but my father has limited mobility. He can do stairs, but its best if he doesn’t have to walk very far. They are very casual. I don’t think that they would want a super structured schedule. I think a 3-5 day cruise would be ideal and leaving from San Francisco, even better (although not required).

Is there an ideal time of year to go for a cruise to Alaska? A specific cruise line? I have never planned a cruise so any help would be greatly appreciated. :smiley:

Ooh, my folks are the same as yours - same age, same mindset, same mobility. They want a cruise as their next vacation, too. I’m interested in Dopers replies! (although it’d be easier for them to port out of NY or FL)

We went to Alaska on Princess and really enjoyed it. We sailed out of Seattle. My inlaws are in their mid to late 50s and had a blast. We heard that Norwegian is even better, but also IIRC more expensive.

I bet you can’t go wrong with any line, although I might avoid Carnival (party reputation) and Disney (for obvious reasons).

We went in May, which was early in the season which meant more ice, but we couldn’t get to the glacier because of the icebergs.

Alaska cruises go from May-September, depending on the ice build-up.

Any cruise line can be very accomodating for mobility issues; they all have rooms that are designed to be wheelchair accessible, and the public areas have lots of handholds and seating areas for resting. To get between floors, there are lots of elevators, so your parents wouldn’t have to climb the stairs.
From a quick look at tripcentral.ca, Princess, Norwegian and Royal Caribbean all have departures from San Francisco, but some end the cruise in Vancouver. The majority of these cruises seem to leave and return from Vancouver or Seattle. The Inside Passage is generally less expensive than the Alaska Glacier routes.

For less than a 1 week cruise, you’re looking at September and May, with Celebrity and Princess cruises respectively (there’s only one showing up for each month!). Your options go up significantly if you look at a 7 day cruise.

I’d recommend 7 days, simply because it tends to take most first-time cruisers 2 days or so to figure out how things work, and to start relaxing and enjoying the trip.

I can’t really comment on structure, since I’ve only cruised with Royal Caribbean. We happen to enjoy getting dressed up for dinner but spending the rest of the day doing what we want, and so loved RC for that! If we didn’t want the formality of the main dining room, there was always the buffets and the pizza/sandwich/cookie shop, or Johnny Rockets (on the larger ships… Voyager and Freedom class). The only real time constraints are those related to how early you’re allowed off the boat and how late you’re allowed to return at the various stops. We always felt that the service was of very high quality, the ship was always spotless, there was good crowd control, the staff were pleasant, and all-in-all, both our cruises were wonderful experiences. Which is why our family is going for another one this year!

As for planning, we tend to do the following:

Pick a time of year. If your parents are restricted to certain times (Xmas, Spring Break, school summers) due to their jobs, then where they can go will be decided by that as much as anything else.

Decide on a budget. This is the big thing, because you’ll start looking at prices, tell yourself “that’s not so bad” and then look for a flight… for Canadians, the flight to the cruise port is sometimes nearly as expensive as the cruise itself! Your budget might also decide from which port you can depart - you might not be able to afford to travel to San Francisco, but there’s a sale to Seattle and that puts everything into your budget.

Once you know what’s possible in terms of time and finances, just start looking at cruise websites. The individual cruise lines have good webpages, but I like looking at www.tripcentral.ca or http://www.cruiseshipcenters.com/ (well, .ca) to get a general idea of what the prices are throughout the year, and start whittling away at the possibilities. Both of these are going to be more expensive than buying from Royal Caribbean or other cruise lines directly, though, so it’s just a starting point. At this point, my parents and my husband and I are Royal Caribbean fans, so we might start looking there right away, since they really do have the best prices.

We also start checking the airlines on our own, to find out the “true” cost of the trip, and then perhaps deal with a travel agent friend of ours to see what package (with insurance and guarantees) she can give us, and go from there.

Have fun!

My parents are right around that same age and they did the Alaskan cruise and said that almost everyone else on board was in their same age demographic, so that was pretty nice for them. It was hard for me to imagine a cruise ship where everyone went to bed by 9:00pm, but I guess it happens. :smiley:

Thanks for all the great input! Price is definitely an issue as all of us kids are still at the somewhat poor part of our lives (optimistically assuming that it is merely temporary). I would love to get the best deal possible, but obviously, the happiness of the parents is most important.

Cluricaun, what cruise line did your parents go on?

mnemosyneThanks for all the great information! I will have to check those websites out!

I believe it was Norwegian. I’ll ask my mom if I talk to her this week to make sure, but I’m almost 100%

check out www.cruisecritic.com

I forgot to mention that my mom is a vegetarian. Do you think that that would be a problem on most cruises?

Nope, they aim to please on a cruise, just let them know meal requirements ahead of time and you’ll be fine. Heck, on most cruises veggie might even be cheaper since you won’t be sucking down the filet and the lobsters.

Just scheduled a cruise on Princess. In fact, they specifically gave us a questionnaire where they asked about allergies, requests for alternative menus, etc.

Only been on Holland America to Alaska before. Probably a good cruise for those with limited mobility since you can see a lot from the boat and usually have minimal ports of call. We only had three. Holland America would probably be a good cruise line to go through. The boats are usually smaller and more intimate. More mature atmosphere.

Only thing we should have done differently was spring for the balcony rooms. Kinda sucked having to jockey for position at the rails to see the glaciers. We enjoyed our trip though.

Someone on CruiseCritic suggested being mindful of school vacations if you plan an “adults-only” cruise. One mentioned that they went on a summer cruise to the Bahamas and over a quarter of the ship ended up being <20 years old. :smack: